have you taken the mirror out and actually watched yourself to better understand what makes it sooo good for your man? how old were you were you intimidated?
I've sat down before in front of the mirror to check out my anatomy. I think that every woman should do this at least once. Too many women are either scared or just feel awkward checking out their own parts. I was 14 when I first did this and I have set up mirrors before for my man and I to look at while in the act.