Is this normal?

jlr23 jlr23
I personally do not think I have ever had a G-spot, or vaginal orgasm. I can only climax by stimulating my clitoris. I am wondering what could be the possible reasons for this? I'm beginning to think maybe I have and just haven't realized it or maybe I am not hitting my G-spot correctly?
Confused and disappointed...
02/09/2013
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Trixie Horror Trixie Horror
Many women find it difficult to orgasm internally. It's perfectly normal, you're not broken or anything (trust me I thought that too, before I learned more about it and learned to do it).

This link to The Marriage Bed may be able to help with some of your questions. It talks about whether or not the elusive "g-spot" even exists, but there's some decent information in the article.
02/10/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Ok - so this is very similar to your other question to which I answered:

My wife can orgasm from just using the Pure Wand on her g-spot (i have done it for her as well). It takes a lot of time and patience - so she doesn't prefer it.

We've become very adept at blended or combined orgasms. They are way more intense and satisfying that clitoral-only orgasms.

She had two huge ones tonight - she couldn't move or talk for about 5 minutes. I love when that happens! She calls it my job security!

Adding to this I'd like to say that you are very young - indeed in many ways not even fully mature. Similarly your partners are likely relatively inexperienced - be patient - don't give up.

My wife insists that I know her body better than she does - and indeed it's very true. I can reach her g-spot and deeper a-spot in a way that she never could with or without toys.

Until you find the right partner - don't put a lot of pressure on yourself - its a lifelong journey of discovery. If you had it all today what would there be to look forward to?

We continue to love and explore - enjoy the journey!
02/10/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by jlr23
I personally do not think I have ever had a G-spot, or vaginal orgasm. I can only climax by stimulating my clitoris. I am wondering what could be the possible reasons for this? I'm beginning to think maybe I have and just haven't realized it ... More
i still haven't found my g, but u can not orgasm from internal penetration without clit stimulation.
02/13/2013
nikki0668 nikki0668
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Ok - so this is very similar to your other question to which I answered:

My wife can orgasm from just using the Pure Wand on her g-spot (i have done it for her as well). It takes a lot of time and patience - so she doesn't prefer ... More
Very well said!
02/13/2013
dks210 dks210
It's very normal.
02/27/2013
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
The times I've found my g it just made me feel like I had to go to the bathroom. Then it messed up my mindset for sex. I feel like mine is broken since others can have a g O pretty easily, but I'm not giving up. I'm guessing I'll have to go get some GSpot toys to make sure I'm finding it correctly and see how those go.
03/04/2013
Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
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Originally posted by AmethystQueen
The times I've found my g it just made me feel like I had to go to the bathroom. Then it messed up my mindset for sex. I feel like mine is broken since others can have a g O pretty easily, but I'm not giving up. I'm guessing I'll have ... More
That feeling like you have to pee is often the build-up before you have a squirting orgasm. You definitely found your g-spot, just go to the bathroom before you start to play and when that feeling hits, embrace it!!! When I squirt during orgasm it is the most intense, amazing feeling I have ever had
03/08/2013
Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
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Originally posted by jlr23
I personally do not think I have ever had a G-spot, or vaginal orgasm. I can only climax by stimulating my clitoris. I am wondering what could be the possible reasons for this? I'm beginning to think maybe I have and just haven't realized it ... More
It takes time and patience to have a g-spot orgasm. Have you tried curved toys with a ball like "head" to rub on your spot?? It will probably take some practice to figure out what exactly does it for you but don't give up!!!
03/08/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
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Originally posted by Chastity Darling
That feeling like you have to pee is often the build-up before you have a squirting orgasm. You definitely found your g-spot, just go to the bathroom before you start to play and when that feeling hits, embrace it!!! When I squirt during orgasm it is ... More
Yes, you have found it! I agree with Chastity Darling here. You just did not know it. You have to relax and let it flow and then enjoy!
03/08/2013
karenm karenm
It is normal. I've had this problem too. I only can sometimes after having a clitoral orgasm.
04/01/2013
Jaybird Jaybird
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Ok - so this is very similar to your other question to which I answered:

My wife can orgasm from just using the Pure Wand on her g-spot (i have done it for her as well). It takes a lot of time and patience - so she doesn't prefer ... More
Bravo. Very well put.
04/05/2013
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