Ladies: How old were you when you had your first orgasm without clitoral stimulation? (I've fixed the poll to include people over 32. sorry about the mistake. Ignore the last poll with this title.)

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Ladies: How old were you when you had your first orgasm without clitoral stimulation? (I've fixed the poll to include people over 32. sorry about the mistake. Ignore the last poll with this title.)

zeebot zeebot
I'm had clit and g-spot orgasms using vibrators (separately and together), but only g-spot orgasms from a partner without toys (and only a couple times).
01/27/2011
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
It's never happened for me so far, but I think I've come close.
02/07/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
I almost always need clit stim. to have an orgasm during sex. Less than a handful of times have I been able to without it. It happened during sex and once when he was using dildos on me.
02/22/2011
Linga Linga
It actually only happened a few months ago.
02/22/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
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Originally posted by Linga
It actually only happened a few months ago.
Care to share how it happened?
02/22/2011
SerenityRed SerenityRed
The first time I orgasmed without clitoral stimulation, and it was the first time orgasming during sex, my boyfriend and I came at the same time. I was crying I was so happy.
02/26/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
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Originally posted by SerenityRed
The first time I orgasmed without clitoral stimulation, and it was the first time orgasming during sex, my boyfriend and I came at the same time. I was crying I was so happy.
Wow! Did it just happen? Were you doing something special? A special position? Do tell!
02/26/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
My husband says I'm very easy to make cum, but honestly, no one has ever made me cum the way he does.
03/09/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I usually need intense clit stim, usually a wand vibrator AFTER some good oral sex, along with A Spot stimulation, in order to come. It can take me anywhere from 5 to 50 minutes. When I was younger, I could come from very little clit stim and used to stop myself, and make him do something else, because if I came too soon, I used to lose interest. I can have multiples now, so I don't lose interest, but it is not as easy as it used to be, but they are longer and better.

I can have G Spot orgasms, but if they aren't blended with clit orgasms, I am left frustrated. They just don't relieve the build up, for whatever reason, although to My Man they look, feel and sound just like a "regular" orgasm.

After the first "hard" orgasm I can come during PIV, or anal or even while giving him head. After the first one, it isn't difficult. NOBODY told me this would happen. It used to be so easy, but I'd lose interest afterward, now it's difficult, but I can go all night after the first one.
03/09/2011
breathless breathless
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I've seen statistics, but I'm extremely curious how common it is and how much practice it takes to have orgasms without clitoral stimulation. I know there are some women who have non-clitoral orgasm the first time they have penetration, but ...
i was super young. younger than 16. i could just imagine sex and just get an orgasm. but now, i have to have sex or some sort of stimulation.
03/20/2011
purplekidney purplekidney
I definitely need clitoral stimulation, but I've actually only orgasmed with the guy (I'm backwards, I guess) as well. We just arrange our positions so I can fit a hand or a toy down there too and we're good to go!
04/01/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
I was 17 it was like my 3rd time having sex. I thought it was amazing because at that time i thought men could only have orgasms during sex. So when it happened to me i thought i was tight shit!!
05/30/2011
Maeby Maeby
I've only ever had clitoral orgasms. For all you lucky ladies who can achieve both, do they feel different? I've always been curious, so if anyone could be so kind as to clue me in, I'd appreciate it.
05/30/2011
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
It helps to have some sort of penetration for me to come. I often come during PIV as well. however I'm not sure it is a straight g-spot orgasm, as I feel it most around the opening. And I usually have some foreplay, so that helps too.

but it isn't "direct" clitoral stimulation.
05/30/2011
Krissers Krissers
I was 15!
06/09/2011
Eucaly Eucaly
It was extremely easy the first time, no clitoral touching at all, not even indirectly, and after that first time it's always been very, very difficult to do it without clitoral stimulation.

I plan to get some better toys soon and devote a lot of time to it, so I'm hoping to figure out what made the first time so easy and start having them more easily.
06/21/2011
soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
Orgasms from pure vaginal stimulation has been the easiest for me, it was with clitoral stimulations that it took a while.
07/01/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
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Originally posted by Lucidity
I feel the same way
I feared it too. Big time! Finally started happening at 26. Don't lose hope, and explore that G-spot, hands on. I found one digit to be best too. I may have never found what works without exploring it that way, honestly.
08/16/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I was 5 or 6 lol
08/16/2011
Callisto Callisto
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I've seen statistics, but I'm extremely curious how common it is and how much practice it takes to have orgasms without clitoral stimulation. I know there are some women who have non-clitoral orgasm the first time they have penetration, but ...
I didn't think I could before it happened, I was 21. Then I thought it was a one time thing until it happened a couple times this year from just playing alone. To get there faster I need a little clitoral stimulation but I would love to just ride/thrust while in a fantasy induced trance.
08/17/2011
briluminary briluminary
I was probably 15 or 16
08/18/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I had my first vaginal orgasm before I had my first clitoral o.
09/26/2011
lacybutton lacybutton
I've never had a g-spot orgasm (I don't think?) but I did orgasm once from intense nipple stimulation. I didn't think it was possible until it happened.
10/15/2011
eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I've seen statistics, but I'm extremely curious how common it is and how much practice it takes to have orgasms without clitoral stimulation. I know there are some women who have non-clitoral orgasm the first time they have penetration, but ...
I can't recall this ever happening for me- I didn't have direct clit stimulation, but it was getting some action from all the friction and tugging down there...
10/25/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I answered for my wife. It took a long time before we were actually able to do it. It's kind of a hit or miss thing with us though.
12/15/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I have a hard time coming from clitoral stimulation. It takes a ton of work to get me there that way.

I come super easy from g-spot stimulation, though. It only takes me a couple of minutes, and once I come that way, I can keep coming repeatedly. My first orgasm was from g-spot stimulation. I can also come from anal, but I've never had a clitoral orgasm without a powerful vibrator. And I've never had a satisfying clitoral orgasm at all.

G-spot orgasms are pretty much a definite for me, clit are an almost never.

I can think off, too, though.
12/15/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I haven't been able to have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. I came close with my Amethyst (glass g-spot toy), but didn't quite make it. I hope to be able to someday.
12/16/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I began having spontaneous orgasms when I was almost 15. I didn't have partnered sexual contact until I was 19, and I didn't masturbate until I was 17. The only reason I started masturbating was a friend told me that it would control the spontaneous orgasms, and it did help.

I don't know why I had spontaneous orgasms, because I very rarely thought about sex, and it was even rarer that I found the idea of sex appealing.
01/17/2012
Katelyn Katelyn
It's extremely rare for me to have an orgasm without it being clitoral.
01/27/2012
fredacarl fredacarl
about 25
02/02/2012
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