Multiple O's for your Man...O yes please!!!

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Multiple O's for your Man...O yes please!!!

Vnessa Vnessa
Piggy Backing from a 'Blow Job' thread that I did earlier--I got some really great tips from The-It-Guy-and-His-Sec retary (huge props!!!) on how to help your man reach multiple orgasms.

In a nutshell, the concept was to giddy up into cowgirl position, have your man's hands at your hips for guidance, as you slowly ride him into bliss. Once he feels his orgasm approach, he will pull you off, where he can then treat you to some fun forplay (maybe oral stimulation, a vibe, or whatever tickles your fancy). Then, after he has had time to cool down a bit (possibly given you a delightful O) you are ready to jump back into position. You start the process over again This helps him to control his release as well as gives him a greater release when it finally happens. They key is, he will eventually be able to cum, play some more, and cum again

So, this evening was our first time trying this and I have to say, at first, he looked at me like I was crazy and said, "what! No cumming?!?" Yes, luv, no cumming, until I say, that's the game for tonight lol. It was a bit priceless but it was fun. I nearly got thrown clean off the bed (in a fun way) when he thought he was about to 'release'!!! It was a little exhilarating lol. We will Definitely continue this homework assignment

If you have some fun tricks of the trade....please share. We thoroughly enjoyed this one.
02/22/2015
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The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Piggy Backing from a 'Blow Job' thread that I did earlier--I got some really great tips from The-It-Guy-and-His-Sec retary (huge props!!!) on how to help your man reach multiple orgasms.

In a nutshell, the concept was to giddy up ...
The question is...

Did I let you down?

It was great wasn't it?
02/22/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The question is...

Did I let you down?

It was great wasn't it?
Not one bit. Yes!!! Still working on focus but we'll get there lol. I think I could have gotten him to go into other directions as well (from other discussions) but I wanted to save that. Didn't want to overload him

so, I did ask, if the orgasm was more intense, and he kind of laughed and said "yeah, I think it was". So, you are freaking Super Man!!!
02/22/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The question is...

Did I let you down?

It was great wasn't it?
The next step for him is literally seconds before he is going to have a normal orgasm have him flex his pc muscles. In other words the muscles he uses to stop himself from peeing. Make him pretend as if he is forcing himself to cum by using those muscles.

He will ejaculate but it may be a very little bit but that will not be enough to stop him from feeling as if he has completed. He may ejaculate very little THATS OK! tell him to go back at it. You may find yourself going for several hours. That's been my experience.

Following that practice you may find him being able to ejaculate normally but being able to do it several times over time.

It is not going to be easy... and he wont get it the first time.

Its basically an add on to edging.

I will tell you this though. When he has come inside of you 3-4 times in a row you will be amazed and happy that your man was willing to put in the work to see if he can fill you to the brim.

I like to cum the first time or two on her chest then the last time inside of her. Its kind of the first two rounds are the proof and the last is for me!

I am so happy for you guys! Sexual discovery is awesome isn't it?
02/22/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The next step for him is literally seconds before he is going to have a normal orgasm have him flex his pc muscles. In other words the muscles he uses to stop himself from peeing. Make him pretend as if he is forcing himself to cum by using those ...
Tell him, congratulations. You just experienced your first tantric orgasm.

I would buy him beer if I knew him! The best part of all is that he was willing to try new things!

This part is just for you though: I want you to think about the fact that he was willing to put off his own orgasm to please you. I know you made him but he didn't get angry and push you off and say fuck this because a lot of men will do that. Can you think of any better way to say I love you then that?

He's awesome and your lucky! I hope you look into the other things we were talking about. Even if you don't for a couple of years, this alone is a huge step into enjoying him and him enjoying you.

That next step orgasm is great isn't it. I know its not you errupting but still it must feel amazing for him to errupt inside of you!

The secretary wasn't feeling that great tonight so I ended up playing video games! You got some for me!!!! LMAO!

As I said before I am so happy for you guys!
02/22/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The next step for him is literally seconds before he is going to have a normal orgasm have him flex his pc muscles. In other words the muscles he uses to stop himself from peeing. Make him pretend as if he is forcing himself to cum by using those ...
OH and one last thing about the multiple orgams.

You will find as a Lady that when he cums its better for him to cum inside of you the last time or the last two times.

I say this because you will eventually start to build up heat and you definitely don't want to create enough heat to turn your collective juices into something that will get sticky. (I have done that and its no good later on for her)

Maybe the first two on your chest and breasts, then the last two or last one inside of you. If you guys are going slow, and not creating a lot of friction like you riding him super slowly it is possible for him to cum inside of you 4-5 times and it still feel good. I just know if it starts to get sticky I hurt her.
02/22/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
OH and one last thing about the multiple orgams.

You will find as a Lady that when he cums its better for him to cum inside of you the last time or the last two times.

I say this because you will eventually start to build up heat and ...
btw.... I posted a discussion about multiple orgasms.

Its my own post and its on my profile check it out!

Its funny a lot of people get funny about telling others how they get to multiples.

I just love hearing that someone is getting there!!!!!
02/22/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
btw.... I posted a discussion about multiple orgasms.

Its my own post and its on my profile check it out!

Its funny a lot of people get funny about telling others how they get to multiples.

I just love hearing that someone is ...
And last but not least...

Sorry I have had a few and shes asleep...

For me... Nothing satisfies me like just getting ready to cum and finding out that she super wet and I want to slow down... Why?

I get to taste her and the fluids that I built up on her labia from her and I during intercourse... Salty and delicious! I win either way!

I know I am a bit kinky... but hey that's why we are here right?
02/22/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The next step for him is literally seconds before he is going to have a normal orgasm have him flex his pc muscles. In other words the muscles he uses to stop himself from peeing. Make him pretend as if he is forcing himself to cum by using those ...
It really is! I thought multiples for men were total myth. So, I'm up for the experiment.

I'm ready for practice makes perfect lol. Give it up!!! I know Rome wasn't built in a day--I have patience.

Thank you, by the way! This is why I LOVE these boards.
02/22/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Tell him, congratulations. You just experienced your first tantric orgasm.

I would buy him beer if I knew him! The best part of all is that he was willing to try new things!

This part is just for you though: I want you to think about ...
So true, I am a very very lucky girl. He was completely willing to try anything I was getting ready to suggest. I actually faltered a moment, wondering, should I use this opportunity to try a little anal, he knew I was going to give him a special massage---said he trusted me, but I thought it might be best to wait. So, I just broke out the coconut oil and rubbed a little while, did some light oral, and then proceeded onto my "lesson".

Aww, sorry the Mrs was under the weather. I sure did take over the reigns for ya!!! Lol

Thanks!!! He was happy (up for hours after lol) and I was happy
02/22/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
And last but not least...

Sorry I have had a few and shes asleep...

For me... Nothing satisfies me like just getting ready to cum and finding out that she super wet and I want to slow down... Why?

I get to taste her and the ...
Actually, he was INSANELY insatiable as he was going down!!! The combo of not cumming, the slow sex, maybe our mixture, I think drove him batshit crazy (in a very good way)!!! It was an OH, YES moment indeed.

You got that right!!! Lol. Kinksters must unite and share. It provides very satisfied bedroom activities for their loved ones
02/22/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
So true, I am a very very lucky girl. He was completely willing to try anything I was getting ready to suggest. I actually faltered a moment, wondering, should I use this opportunity to try a little anal, he knew I was going to give him a special ...
Perhaps you should have accidentally got some coconut oil in his virgin hole and then proceeded to clean it up for him.
02/22/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Perhaps you should have accidentally got some coconut oil in his virgin hole and then proceeded to clean it up for him.
I seriously think it would have been OK!!!! I will get a Do Over
02/22/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I seriously think it would have been OK!!!! I will get a Do Over
Seems you really want to do this. Patience patience my darling. Darn, can't find a patience smiley for you.

Might have to sacrifice one of you nails for this. Might turn out to be a good conversation piece with the gf's and co workers though.
02/22/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Seems you really want to do this. Patience patience my darling. Darn, can't find a patience smiley for you.

Might have to sacrifice one of you nails for this. Might turn out to be a good conversation piece with the gf's and co ...
I think so (grin)

Oh my goodness, I have my bff that would SHIT lol. I have so much fun teasing and playing with her. she calls me by my full name A LOT lol. kind of like being scolded as a kid for being naughty
02/22/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I think so (grin)

Oh my goodness, I have my bff that would SHIT lol. I have so much fun teasing and playing with her. she calls me by my full name A LOT lol. kind of like being scolded as a kid for being naughty
Why not get her to join our forum. Try to anonymously drop info about this place. Think of the fun u will have teasing her and others all the while she doesn't know it's you. Do u understand what I mean ? Somehow leave info or somehow send a url link anonymously. If u see a new member with her locality on her profile, it might be her. If she is anything like you, she will love this place !
02/22/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Why not get her to join our forum. Try to anonymously drop info about this place. Think of the fun u will have teasing her and others all the while she doesn't know it's you. Do u understand what I mean ? Somehow leave info or somehow send ...
She's a closet freak, I don't know who she's kidding lol She would be a flipping riot!!!

How do I send an anonymous link??? I would have to lose my avatar and grab a geriatric one. She knows me TOO well and knows my pics lol
02/22/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
She's a closet freak, I don't know who she's kidding lol She would be a flipping riot!!!

How do I send an anonymous link??? I would have to lose my avatar and grab a geriatric one. She knows me TOO well and knows my pics lol
We're going to need others help on this. Someone imaginative or tech savvy. Maybe you should start a thread asking for help. Or go to Cnet or place like that. Or leave a EF ad where she can find it. Maybe print one of the sales. Or google how spammers use others emails to send links. Don't spam people though just get a EF link to her.
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