Sex Fact: Masturbation

Kayla Kayla
While some women can not climax during intercourse, many can during masturbation. Em and Lo say that it may take a bit of practice, but many women can climax within minutes when they learn how to use their own hands. Em and Lo list some inspirational ideas for masturbation (that would even work for males too!)

-Understand your anatomy and how to works to provide the most possible pleasure.
-Massage yourself with a light, all-over body massage to help get yourself in the mood. You can use massage oil or a little vibrator.
-Do your kegels regularly. Kegel muscles can strength your pelvic floor muscles and help draw blood into the area.
-Use sex toys. Many women happily use sex toys and find that orgasm is much easier once a sex toy is brought into the picture.
-Mutual masturbation. While masturbating on your own can be fun, you can masturbate with a partner can add a whole new dimension.

Learn more sex facts like this in the Sex: How to do Everything book by Em and Lo.

Do you masturbate (males and females)? Have you tried some of these suggestions while masturbating or to get yourself in the mood?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, I masturbate.
278
No, I do not masturbate.
8
Yes, I do my own foreplay during masturbation.
97
No, I just jump right in during masturbation.
83
Total votes: 466 (291 voters)
Poll is closed
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Bunnycups Bunnycups
I doubt anyone will answer "No, I do not masturbate."
05/23/2011
Kayla Kayla
Quote:
Originally posted by Bunnycups
I doubt anyone will answer "No, I do not masturbate."
Ya never know. I'm looking forward to seeing the answers of this poll though.
05/23/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Quote:
Originally posted by Bunnycups
I doubt anyone will answer "No, I do not masturbate."
Probably not on this web site!
05/23/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
Ya never know. I'm looking forward to seeing the answers of this poll though.
You're right, there are some people who get toys just for partner sex and never masturbate...

I'M not one of those people, but there are some.

I voted for both "yes" and "no" to foreplay. Sometimes I work myself up, sometimes I jump right on in.
05/23/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I do all the time, the wife does not do it that much. She prefers I do it for her, I'm good with that.
05/23/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I like to work myself up first.
05/23/2011
Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Bunnycups
I doubt anyone will answer "No, I do not masturbate."
I hope not! I would haz a sad for them.
05/23/2011
butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
I hope not! I would haz a sad for them.
lol (:
05/23/2011
Kiwidragon Kiwidragon
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
While some women can not climax during intercourse, many can during masturbation. Em and Lo say that it may take a bit of practice, but many women can climax within minutes when they learn how to use their own hands. Em and Lo list some inspirational ... More
For me it's always best after...yoga. Ok, and a little wine too but it's been a while since that since I'm still the baby's favorite restaurant. Anyhow, if I loosen up my pelvic area by doing big circles with my hips, wowee! The Kegels are a good exercise too. My midwife gave me a huge orange sticker that says KEGEL on it, she had several on her phone. Probably couldn't get away with that at the law firm where I work, lol.
05/24/2011
big b big b
with the wife
05/24/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I do all the time, the wife does not do it that much. She prefers I do it for her, I'm good with that.
How sweet
05/24/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I don't work myself up, I just lay down and go to town with my toys.

I will watch porn from time to time but I hardly consider that foreplay.

I did sort of massage myself once, the first time I explored my vagina with my fingers and found a pleasure button. But once I knew this amazing body part I went straight for it, thereafter.
05/24/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Great tips! I usually do my own foreplay when I am masturbating. There's days where I am a little stressed out from works and I say "Tonight I need to masturbate, even if I'm not fully in the mood". Those are the nights when my own foreplay, or my fiance's is needed before hand.

Sometimes I am just really aroused already, and I don't even need it.
05/24/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I love Em & Lo. They are amazing.
05/24/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
I don't. My partner does it for me during our before play! Ha.
05/24/2011
Lady Venus Lady Venus
I'm always masturbating. I can get myself off clitorally within seconds, and can squirt within 5 minutes. But as for foreplay I like it to take it slow. We'll either masturbate together, or he does it for me.
05/24/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
It works both ways with us. Sometimes its solo self time, others its mutual play time, and then that often leads to mutual together time.
05/24/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
during four play and alone.
05/24/2011
Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Venus
I'm always masturbating. I can get myself off clitorally within seconds, and can squirt within 5 minutes. But as for foreplay I like it to take it slow. We'll either masturbate together, or he does it for me.
Seconds? Jealous!!!
05/24/2011
Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
I hope not! I would haz a sad for them.
Haha, me too.

sad
05/24/2011
Howells Howells
I've been doing it for at least 10 years and still counting of course I took the toys and the anatomy advice BTW and some really good new experiences followed.
05/25/2011
Rossie Rossie
I masturbate a little before going into foreplay with my husband. I rarely masturbate when I'm alone.
05/25/2011
Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Bunnycups
Haha, me too.

Nothing give me warm fuzzies like baby animals!!!
05/26/2011
ChickRocking ChickRocking
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
While some women can not climax during intercourse, many can during masturbation. Em and Lo say that it may take a bit of practice, but many women can climax within minutes when they learn how to use their own hands. Em and Lo list some inspirational ... More
I masturbate when I am allowed. I do not finding it anywhere near as pleasurable as sex. The times I enjoy it the most is when I can finish and cum. Then it is the most intense. I do enjoy masturbating with being watched. Being watched in any situation is a big turn on.
05/28/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't warm up with any foreplay - ever!
I just get straight to the point.
05/29/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
everybody needs to
05/29/2011
Destri Destri
Been masturbating for about as long as I can remember, and that is a long, long time. Never bothered with foreplay, I just get right to the point.
05/30/2011
ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Yes, can help during foreplay too.
05/30/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
Sometimes I do foreplay and sometimes not so much. Sometimes my foreplay is mental, like I'm having a hot fantasy and that inspires me to masturbate. Or sometimes I dress up for myself or dance in order to feel sexy.
06/09/2011
Total posts: 93
Unique posters: 85