I like to use eggs vaginally, especially ones w/ patterns & various speeds. this helps get me going more than when I'm thinking about wanting to have sex, although that works lots of times. I continue about whatever I'm doing till I reach the point the pleasure of the egg is distracting me. then I get out several of my fave vibes. starting out w/ a teaser, I use each vibe for a minimum of 5 - 10 minutes depending on how many are waiting for me. I always save the most fave vibe for last & boy oh boy, do I have a deliciously wonderful time. of course, the most fave vibe changes from time to time. good luck in finding what works for you.