As a woman do you prefer your man giving you oral sex with or without the new 'latex dams'?

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As a woman do you prefer your man giving you oral sex with or without the new 'latex dams'?

FlyingChef FlyingChef
The reason I'm asking is because I love to give Oral sex to my girl, but I can't always say i enjoy the taste, with these new products I can enjoy it even more... but I have a feeling that when she says she likes it better, she's only saying it because she knows I enjoy it a 'little' bit more... that moment is for her, and I'd like to know what she really wants.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I have tried them and there really is no difference to me
MEL , DeliciousSurprise , meme11 , Anjulie
4  (3%)
I have tried them and it feels much better than normal
I have tried them but I don't appreciate them
jedent , Victoria , deceased , Luscious Lily , J's Alley , Tori Rebel , KaliLeanne , ss143 , mizzmilla
9  (6%)
Haven't Tried-- No Idea
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128  (91%)
Total votes: 141
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03/31/2009
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Sammi Sammi
I would prefer without. I've never used a condom on him when giving him oral (or ever used a condom, really), and I can't imagine him using something like that on me. Course, we've been together a long time, so that hasn't been an issue.
03/31/2009
FlyingChef FlyingChef
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I would prefer without. I've never used a condom on him when giving him oral (or ever used a condom, really), and I can't imagine him using something like that on me. Course, we've been together a long time, so that hasn't been an issue.
To some degree that makes sense to me, but usually oral sex for us happens during our play time not right before/after- so we do leave the condom on-- no point in putting it on then taking it right off-- but this is different-- perhaps I'll just watch her reaction w/o ^.^
03/31/2009
Sammi Sammi
That makes sense. It might me interesting for us to try as a novelty (as would condoms), but otherwise I can't imagine it.
That could just be me, though
03/31/2009
Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
I would think flavored lube might be better than a dam, if your main concern is flavor and not disease prevention.
03/31/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I couldn't really choose any of those answers. I have used them, and yes, they do feel different and take away a bit of sensation, but I DO appreciate them. Safe sex practices are what have kept me healthy and STI-free, so while I PREFER oral without a dental dam, I've insisted that most of my partners--male AND female--use a dental dam.
03/31/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Quote:
Originally posted by Cinnamon Chambers
I would think flavored lube might be better than a dam, if your main concern is flavor and not disease prevention.
I agree with this. If taste is a problem, try a flavored lube, like System JO.
03/31/2009
Mamastoys Mamastoys
I have never thought about using them but we have been together forever so as far as disease control, not an issue here. As far as taste, I would think the flavored lubes would be better. I sometimes use flavored lube when I give him head..just for the taste..
04/01/2009
Machina Machina
I agree that flavored lubes might be the best option too (for your girlfriend's sake). You know your girlfriend best, but if she says she doesn't mind the dental dam, then go for it! If she's already used to getting bareback oral, I highly doubt she'll consent to you using a dental dam if it doesn't satisfy her.

I haven't used a dental dam while receiving oral, but I have tried one over my bits while using my hitachi. I ran out of condoms one night, so I tried using a dental dam my boyfriend brought home as a joke one time. Myeh...I didn't like it as much, but everyone is different.
04/01/2009
TinyTease TinyTease
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I agree with this. If taste is a problem, try a flavored lube, like System JO.
System JO strawberry is awesome! I haven't tried the other flavors, but this one is really yummy.

For the original question, I imagine that it would feel much better without, tho I have yet to use one myself. I imagine it feels like sex with a condom. If stds aren't an issue, opt for some lube.
04/30/2009
TinyTease TinyTease
Also, you can try having her eat more fruits and drink pineapple juice. Pineapple juice is a wonder for taste! The less meat and dairy she consumes, the sweeter she'll be.
04/30/2009
RainbowBrite RainbowBrite
i agree with tinytease, have her watch what she eats & bulk up on fruits, juices & water...lead to a much more pleasant taste.

and like the other posters, i'd say flavored lube it taste is the main issue, but again, if safety is also a concern and she doesn't mind then i'd go with the dam.

for me preferrably, i'd go without since the sensation would just seem a bit dulled with the damn, then again, i don't know as i haven't used one.
05/01/2009
deceased deceased
Use a lot of listerine before you go down on her and try a mentholated cough drop (sugar free). It always helps to have Playtex intimate wipes or baby wipes at the bedside too.
06/10/2009
~*SurrealisticFantasy*~ ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~
Quote:
Originally posted by deceased
Use a lot of listerine before you go down on her and try a mentholated cough drop (sugar free). It always helps to have Playtex intimate wipes or baby wipes at the bedside too.
Have you tried this personally? I'm curious because I would think that if someone were to eat me out right after swishing with Listerine I would be in a fair amount of pain/discomfort... it just sounds like the kind of thing that shouldn't make contact with vaginal tissue....

Anyone else tried this before? I'm curious now...
06/10/2009
Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
I chose "used and don't appreciate" simply because while it wasn't completely accurate, it was the closest answer. We've used dental dams on rare occasions, all of which were when I wanted oral, he wanted to give it, but I was having my period. No, it's definitely not as good as bareback oral, but if we're in the mood it's better than not getting any.

If your only issue is taste, you have two main choices (that don't involve major diet changes): block it or change it. If you're both ok with using dental dams to block the taste, then great. But you can also change it by, as people have said, cleaning her before you go down, or using a flavored lube. There are also gels and creams intended for oral sex, some of which are better tasting and safer than others. If she doesn't have a sensitivity to parabens, Cleopatra's Secret is a great flavored arousal cream (my boyfriend loves the peach flavored one).
06/10/2009
Red Red
Dams are OK, and a vital necessity for safer oral sex with casual playmates.

I have a latex allergy/sensitivity, so giving oral to something sheathed in latex, regardless of the bits in question, is a really big deal for me. Almost as big a deal as giving it unbarriered. I'm not crazy militant about safer oral sex (as in, I accept some risk) but I never, ever, ever, ever, ever go down on casual play partners. Tragically. It's just what makes me feel most comfortable.

If I were playing with someone that wanted to go down on me, that would be fine with me unbarriered (and again, depends on the playmate, the situation - and never with casuals) but I am actually not a huge fan of oral, so if it was oral with a dental damn, I would simply politely decline and suggest fingering instead.
09/28/2009
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by FlyingChef
The reason I'm asking is because I love to give Oral sex to my girl, but I can't always say i enjoy the taste, with these new products I can enjoy it even more... but I have a feeling that when she says she likes it better, she's only ...
I don't think this is an issue for monogamous couples - it's one of the great benefits of the life style. Find the right person to be with and leave the condoms, dams and STDs behind!
11/19/2009
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Could be she likes it better because you are more enthusiastic while using them. My husband won't use them he loves the smell, taste, look, and feel of a pussy so using something that kills any sense takes the pleasure out of the experience for him. I might have to get some for our life partner though as he's keen to try to give me pleasure that way but the smell and taste overwhelms him...
02/17/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Wow this looks a bit one sided lol
07/14/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I've been on both sides of the dam, so to say, when I was younger and having sex that was more casual and less committed. I don't like being on the giving end because I feel it's a little trickier and I don't like the way even the flavored ones taste, and as the receiver, I think you lose a little of the sensation. But safety first!
07/14/2010
MEL MEL
I don't use it now with my husband because Come on we been together all most 11 yrs. But yrs ago I used it all the time.
07/20/2010
Sera Sera
Is this using female condoms during the time when you give fellatio to your girlfriend? WEIRD!
07/31/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
One of the few things I have never even SEEN is a dental dam. When I was dating, they weren't available, and My Man and I are fluid bonded so I see no reason to use one.

If I were ever to have to date again, or The Man and I were to go Quad, we would need to find a dam NOT made of latex, as I am deathly allergic to it.

Do they make them out of silicone?
07/31/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Wow this looks a bit one sided lol
Yeah, I think it's akin to trying to sculpt details into a fine piece of clay with welding mittens on.
07/31/2010
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Never used one and never wanted to
07/31/2010
Midway through Midway through
I have a latex allergy so I can't try anything that isn't latex. It gets old, wish I wasn't allergic :/
07/31/2010
Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
I have never used a dental dam or any type of product designed for "safe" oral sex.
07/31/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
never used it. im curious thou. heard that a regular condom can be used as dental gam. just need to cut it.
10/12/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
Never tried but I imagine I'd enjoy it more without!
10/13/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Could be she likes it better because you are more enthusiastic while using them. My husband won't use them he loves the smell, taste, look, and feel of a pussy so using something that kills any sense takes the pleasure out of the experience for ...
Have to say - I really like what you have going with two guys. I find that exciting.
10/13/2010
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