I love all both sides of the oral spectrum, and I don't mind cumming that way. The only problem is, I am super sensitive after I do, so once I am done, I need for him to back off of the clitoral stimulation, at least for a few minutes.
I've never had a partner give me oral before. However when I get close to orgasm, a soft touch will feel so good it hurts, and distracts me from my orgasm... I can imagine during oral, if I am close, I'd push his head away (or move myself away FROM his head) and ask him to just fuck me so I can finish without being tortured.
I don't want to say that I "can't" come that way bcs I am hoping one day I will, it just hasn't happened so far.
Sometimes I will push him away bcs he's to direct and making the stimulation way too intense to support...not orgasmic at all, more annoying than anything.
Other times, it's just "boring" in the sense that the stimulation is repetitive and his heart isn't in it, so it is reflected in how well he is working it. Having him sort of lean his head on my leg as he does oral and seeing him down there doing the same thing that doesn't work over and over...sort of makes me feel guilty of asking him to do it so I want him to stop.
Sometimes I just don't feel his tongue action very well, I have to be super concentrated to feel it, so if I don't feel much for a long period I will want to do something else.
One day, one day! I won't have to ask for oral (I've had it maybe 2x this year so far but I give him head minimum twice a week), it'll come from him and he'll be as passionate about giving it to me as I am at giving him head. He doesn't know how lucky he is
I've heard women say this too. I never understood what they were so worried about. I just thought maybe they were shy or something, but I am usually very shy and weird about stuff. Not so much with my partner anymore, but I've never made him stop. I DON'T WANT him to stop when I am about to... Lol. I love it so it's hard for me to understand. lol
I'll let him stay down on me until I cum. The sensation right up to the moment is incredible. Sometimes I like to pull him in tighter and ride it out while he keeps going. It all depends on how hard my orgasm is.
He likes it, so I'll let him do it a bit, but I don't let him do it as long as he wants, because... well, I'm not sure. I guess the longer it goes on, the less I like it. No fault of his - I've been that way with every lover. I just don't care for that type of stimulation, and would rather be fucked.
I've never gotten off from oral, but he can play around down there as long as he likes, as long as he's enjoying it. I suspect he might be able to get me off that way if he'd use less tongue and more teeth though.