MEN: Before getting oral...

SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
Do you take a shower or "clean the area" at all? For example, if you're sweaty from a long day at work, exercising, etc. I saw a post on something similar for women, but I thought I would ask men.

I know my husband will shower when he comes home and he's rarely okay with me giving him head right after he's gotten home from work. I'm the same with him. More due to the gross feeling of being dirty. Neither of us really ever stink, but as far as genitals, men can really stink up the place when they stay sweaty for too long. Even my hubby can admit to that. It's nothing to be ashamed of, of course. But a man should take care of himself too. A little sweat is no biggie, but if it's been all day at work + the gym, a shower wont kill ya!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am answering for myself and...
33
I am answering for my partner and...
33
Yes, I will freshen up if needed.
37
Yes, I will freshen up no matter what.
18
I shower constantly so "freshening up" isn't even a problem for me.
13
No, I will not freshen up because I don't smell. (At least I think)
7
No, I don't freshen up because my girl doesn't mind. (At least I think)
3
I'm wondering if I should start freshening up now! lol
8
Total votes: 152 (72 voters)
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02/13/2012
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Coralbell Coralbell
My boyfriend doesn't clean up before sex, and I have never noticed any odours. He doesn't have a job where he gets sweaty, and if he goes to the gym or has hockey he always showers afterward, whether we're going to have sex or not.
02/13/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Do you take a shower or "clean the area" at all? For example, if you're sweaty from a long day at work, exercising, etc. I saw a post on something similar for women, but I thought I would ask men.

I know my husband will shower ... More
I'm a female and answering for my lovie. Since he showers (forever!) Lol immediately after work, it's always clean before I go there.
02/13/2012
duff duff
I personally dont care. He seems to always be clean so ive never asked him to freashen up
02/13/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
The wife and I both freshen up before oral. Usually we'll have a shower together, which is always sexy.
02/13/2012
Slickdick Slickdick
my old lady and i have very good hygiene so we are both usually confident when it comes time service each other
02/15/2012
SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by kendra30752
I'm a female and answering for my lovie. Since he showers (forever!) Lol immediately after work, it's always clean before I go there.
My husband thankfully showers after the work and gym. If we're THAT horny as soon as he walks in the door, we'll do it IN the shower! XD
02/16/2012
Mr. E Mr. E
I like to be clean before we get dirty.
02/16/2012
lemony lemony
Being clean is very important. Nothing kills the mood like stinky sweat.
02/16/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband always cleans immediately after work so this is not an issue for us b/c he's already clean. Plus, he's a computer nerd so he's not doing sweaty work if he didn't shower.
02/16/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We're not clean freaks - but scrubbing up is a nice touch that we generally do as a courtesy.
02/16/2012
Rossie Rossie
I only give my husband BJs at night after his showers.
02/16/2012
martb40 martb40
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Do you take a shower or "clean the area" at all? For example, if you're sweaty from a long day at work, exercising, etc. I saw a post on something similar for women, but I thought I would ask men.

I know my husband will shower ... More
Yes. I would always make sure I am clean before I let anyone go down on me. Imagine the mortification if you were smelly down there. It only takes a few seconds to take a wash cloth to the area or even some mild baby wipes. I'm fine with a little sweat but if it's even close to being stale sweat it would make me gag. Why should I subject my wife to that!
02/16/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Most of the time I do, the other times she doesn't seam to care and is not taking no for an answer. lol I do my best to anticipate her desires and clean up first
02/16/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
My boyfriend will never freshen up, though I wish he would. I almost always do, though he doesn't return the favor enough. -_-"
02/16/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
I'll shower just as a matter of personal hygiene pretty frequently, but I do try to time it so that if something is going down that I'm confident being clean.
03/30/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Do you take a shower or "clean the area" at all? For example, if you're sweaty from a long day at work, exercising, etc. I saw a post on something similar for women, but I thought I would ask men.

I know my husband will shower ... More
I shower every night and I don't consciously clean myself before oral. Sometimes she'll go down on me before I shower or go down after. She has never mentioned anything about a smell or grossness to my package, so it's all good.
04/01/2012
Mwar Mwar
I only ask he clean up if he's been doing strenuous things.
04/01/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I like the fresh out of the shower smell and taste but I'm not horribly turned off by either of my men's smell/taste. So they generally will freshen up if they have been out and sweating.
04/01/2012
Nkev Nkev
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Do you take a shower or "clean the area" at all? For example, if you're sweaty from a long day at work, exercising, etc. I saw a post on something similar for women, but I thought I would ask men.

I know my husband will shower ... More
when you cant shower i just wash my junk in the sink!! lol! might be gross but if shes willing to do that to me then id rather not put her through the alternative!!!
04/04/2012
Fun2bNaked Fun2bNaked
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Do you take a shower or "clean the area" at all? For example, if you're sweaty from a long day at work, exercising, etc. I saw a post on something similar for women, but I thought I would ask men.

I know my husband will shower ... More
I am of the thinking it is always better to be clean out of respect for your partner as I would hope for the same from mine. I am a neatnick and a bit of clean freak so it has never been a problem. I am also one of those rare guys, or so I have been told, who prefers a smooth hairfree look. Just a personal preference...but I do think it makes for better oral sex. I know I definitely prefer a woman who is clean shaven. I think it makes being "fresh or clean" that much easier.
04/04/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I always try to take a shower as soon as I can after getting home from work. It's just common courtesy.
04/04/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I shower at least twice a day. So I'm all good.
04/04/2012
badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Do you take a shower or "clean the area" at all? For example, if you're sweaty from a long day at work, exercising, etc. I saw a post on something similar for women, but I thought I would ask men.

I know my husband will shower ... More
We just kinda get into it.
04/15/2012
PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
There was a time and a girlfriend when I was younger that did have a problem with my crotch smell...
A few times I was ordered into the shower before we did anything because I opted out of the shower for last period gym class.
04/16/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
My boyfriend showers every day, so I never make him clean up before I go down on him.
04/17/2012
lustylusty lustylusty
I dont care, because after a while my spit covers up the sweat smell. Plus its his stink and I love his stink!
04/20/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
I've never received a blowjob which required so much forward planning. It's always been a spontaneous case of tearing off the trousers and getting down to business.
04/20/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
My husband showers often and it isn't an issue for us
04/28/2012
Fawkes Fawkes
lol
05/01/2012
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