I don't mind if she gags a little, but nothing excessive. Saliva is always a good lubricant when she uses her hand along with her mouth. I personally don't like a lot of slobber, but just enough to keep everything sliding along smoothly.
Do men really prefer sloppy, gagging blowjobs?
My boyfriend's never expressed a preference either way. I'd say mind tend to fall somewhere in between "neat" and "sloppy." Not sure if he's into gagging. It's happened a few times in the course of the process, but he never reacted to it either. Hopefully he was just too absorbed to notice.
11/05/2010
I felt the need to come back and change my answer! LOL Originally I had said that I didn't think he'd mind it, but recently while watching porn with gagging blow jobs he was incredibly turned off and was saying that he would never want me gagging on him and if I was he'd probably want me to just stop because he wouldn't feel I was enjoying it I was gagging. He feels that the gagging, drooling blow jobs are more a show of dominance and not something he's into. Now, I wouldn't say that I give neat and tidy blow jobs, saliva is there and I imagine a dry mouth blow job kind of sucks, but there is not actual drooling and no gagging for us.
11/05/2010
I sometimes get really messy with mine, but as long as I'm not gagging and can actually breathe I think it's fun. Once after finishing a messy one I sit up and wipe my mouth neatly as though I'm at a formal dinner and trying to gracefully wipe the corner of my mouth. The guy got a laugh out of that.
Gagging is just rotten, no matter the scenario. I've been with one guy who actually enjoyed seeing/hearing me gag, but most of them disliked it and didn't want me to be uncomfortable.
Gagging is just rotten, no matter the scenario. I've been with one guy who actually enjoyed seeing/hearing me gag, but most of them disliked it and didn't want me to be uncomfortable.
11/05/2010
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Some guys are visually stimulated; others acoustically stimulated. It could be a little of both. Personally, enthusiasm is what does it for me. I could care less about a messy blowjob, but I hate to hear gagging. I'm an acousticophile, and I find the sounds of gagging to be ugly and a huge turn-off...
Originally posted by
PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
11/10/2010
Just like women, not all men like the same things.
My partner doesn't get turned on by excessive messiness in general, but he is fine with the bit of saliva that can come with passionate fellatio. Displays of discomfort--like gagging--can be a turn-off for him. He always watches my expressions to make sure I'm OK and happy!
My partner doesn't get turned on by excessive messiness in general, but he is fine with the bit of saliva that can come with passionate fellatio. Displays of discomfort--like gagging--can be a turn-off for him. He always watches my expressions to make sure I'm OK and happy!
11/11/2010
I prefer clean...I also prefer it if her hand NEVER touches my shaft. Most importantly swallowing is a must. Its not only visually attractive but also erotic that she would do such a act. Really helps when we are public that she isn't like some 3rd rate pornstar when giving oral.
She squirms when she is in public giving/receiving.
She squirms when she is in public giving/receiving.
11/14/2010
WHITEMIKE
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Great analogy
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trios
Definitely! The more lubricated the cock the more sensitive it is for him. Kinda like a foot massage: massaging your foot dry is nice. Then add lotion - it feels better. But with lots of massage oil the fun begins. Especially if there is no
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Definitely! The more lubricated the cock the more sensitive it is for him. Kinda like a foot massage: massaging your foot dry is nice. Then add lotion - it feels better. But with lots of massage oil the fun begins. Especially if there is no foreskin, more lube= more slicky fun!
Nothin to do your your effort but its feeling mainly, but I'm sure he appreciates the effort!
Nothin to do your your effort but its feeling mainly, but I'm sure he appreciates the effort!
03/06/2011
Lynda Belle
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Sometimes. There just so many ways and kinds and he likes them all. What he doesn't like is if I'm not into it or he thinks it's an obligatory/have to BJ.
Originally posted by
PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
03/08/2011
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For me, the messier the better. Th sloppiness makes the act more dirty and can be very visually stimulating. Also, the spit and drool makes the penis more wet and that feels very good. The watery feeling of the saliva can be so stimulating!
Originally posted by
PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
06/16/2011
After watching some porn together, I asked my guy how he felt about gagging and he doesn't want it because he doesn't think it's respectful or comfortable for me. I try to get as much of him in my mouth as possible so a gag moment is inevitable every time, but it's not a requirement or turn on for him.
As to messiness, I'll have to inquire.
As to messiness, I'll have to inquire.
06/17/2011