I used to swallow all the time, but after pregnancy I had a gagging problem due to morning sickness so we're working towards me getting back to being able to swallow. Last time I swallowed most of it and let some of it run out of my mouth. It's been part of our D & S play which has made it more fun for me. ;3 I was actually surprised that being submissive in this sense made it psychologically easier for me to accept it without gagging. I thought the gag response was physiological due to hormone changes somehow but I'm thinking now it was psychological.
None of the above for me, he either comes inside me (if we have unprotected)...Inside the condom (if we use one) OR He pulls out and comes on my Butt, it all depends.