I thoroughly enjoy going down on my wife. I have no problem finding the spots she enjoys me licking. My problem is staying on target. Often ill find a "hotspot' and ill adjust the direction or speed im licking and ill notice she is enjoying it quite a bit so ill stay there and as im trying ill find that i just cant keep up the rhythm and i will try and change pace so i can recover a little but she has informed that i should have kept going numerous times. Any tips on how i could have performed better ?