Do you ever "hold out" on your lover, to let the passion build up?

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Do you ever "hold out" on your lover, to let the passion build up?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Do you ever deliberately say "no" just to heighten the experience later? I have never tried this (not sure I want to), but I have two GF's, who do this to their husbands all the time.

Do you? How does that work for you???
06/14/2013
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Contributor: evanescentowl evanescentowl
I've said no to something at first and then done it later (oral), but that wasn't really on purpose. The anticipation made him super horny though, and it was worth waiting!
06/14/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I've never done this either, but I've recently been thinking about it. The only issue is that when we've been unable to have sex, it's hard for him to keep from cumming not long after we start. Might be worth giving it a shot though, especially if you start off with a lot of foreplay.
06/14/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Do you ever deliberately say "no" just to heighten the experience later? I have never tried this (not sure I want to), but I have two GF's, who do this to their husbands all the time.

Do you? How does that work for you???
Nooo.. Too much passion build up as it is
06/15/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Not here. I prefer to nurture passion by doing other things, like planning sexy surprises, naughty messages, and other such things.
06/15/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Sometimes. Usually it is regards to new toys. My BF pretty much always knows what I ordered but he also knows that I enjoy a little solo play first them before introducing them into "bedroom play". He actually enjoys the wait and the "torture" so to speak. I have also held out because things had started to become a little routine and let us focus on other things to build up the passion and excitement again.
06/15/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
No, don't think I could last that long to even try.
06/15/2013