Irritability used to start creeping in after a couple days. With EF products and community advice, that no longer is a problem. We learned how to openly communicate on the subject of need and desire, now I don't have to sneak around to masturbate and can use toys without fear while waiting for her libido to come around again. She now often joins in to help me finish when she walks in on me having already started.
Seeing how relaxed I stay now with daily release, also has her initiating hand jobs or using a Tenga Egg on me, or pegging me. So now I get to have several sex sessions with my wife in between the times that her genitals join in, which I'm happy to say is becoming more frequent (used to be once or twice a month) as she gets turned on making me have orgasms.