have you faked an orgasm?

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have you faked an orgasm?

kawigrl kawigrl
just curious how many have faked the big O
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yes
40  (55%)
no
33  (45%)
Total votes: 73
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01/17/2011
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UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Yes. When I was younger with guys that just didn't know what the fuck they were doing and I just wanted it to end and go to bed. With my husband I'd never do that. On the very rare occasion that I can't climax, I just tell him. The truth goes a long way. And it's not like it hurts his feelings or anything. He doesn't take it as a affront to his manhood. It's just that sometimes, no matter what, I can't cum. And if that is ever the case I make sure I take care of him before I roll over and go to bed.
01/17/2011
toxie m toxie m
Kind of. When I was younger I would sometimes fake an encouraging climax-like bit that would hurry guys up if I wanted them to get over with it. If they ever asked me outright though, I would tell them the truth. With past boyfriends I rarely ever came from sex and was honest about that, so there was no faking there. On the odd time during oral if I wasn't getting anywhere with it and didn't want to outright tell them to stop I would do the same faked over-enthusiasm moment that could be interpreted however they wanted.. but again, if they asked, I'd tell them that no, I hadn't come.
01/17/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
Yes. In the past when I was with men who cared more about their accomplishments than my experience. The kind of guys that would pout if I didn't climax, but didn't care enough to ask how to get me there. I would fake it to avoid a fight or an annoying situation. I no longer do that.
01/18/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Lucidity
Yes. In the past when I was with men who cared more about their accomplishments than my experience. The kind of guys that would pout if I didn't climax, but didn't care enough to ask how to get me there. I would fake it to avoid a fight or an ...
Me too. Now I have a partner who I never have to fake with, period.
01/18/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I've never faked. I would be uncomfortable with faking and feel like I lied.
01/18/2011
LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I have in the past, mostly because I was tired and knew J wouldn't give up until I came. I don't do it anymore 'cause it hurts his feelings.
01/18/2011
married with children married with children
i havent, and i dont think she has. she is pretty open about sex. if something is not working for her that night, she lets me know and we can change it to something that will get the job done.
01/18/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I had a boyfriend who was accuse me of faking it. I never did, and I never have. I figure honesty is the best policy because if I'm not cumming from this, maybe there's something else we can do together that will produce better results. He didn't always take it that way, but I'm not with him anymore for a reason, lol
01/18/2011
kawigrl kawigrl
anyone ever fake it with another woman, i have a friend who is also a lesbian who has faked her orgasms on occasion in a monogamous ltr I was pretty surprised that she admitted that her girlfriend doesn't mind
01/18/2011
Choolz Choolz
nope, never. It's a very rare occasion when I don't orgasm, like if it's s super mega fast quicky. My husband always makes sure I come before he stops and I have no problem with that at all
01/24/2011
indiglo indiglo
I have in the past, yes. I agree though, honesty is the best policy, and I don't do it now.
01/24/2011
Mlee Mlee
I have have in the past just to make my boyfriend seem like he is doing a good job. because he is self conscious about our sex life. but we have since worked thing out in that department,.
01/25/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
Yes, in the past with other guys who weren't worth a damn. I've never had to fake an O with my husband though. That man makes me orgasm a new way every single time...
01/28/2011
SiNSaNiTy SiNSaNiTy
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Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I have in the past, mostly because I was tired and knew J wouldn't give up until I came. I don't do it anymore 'cause it hurts his feelings.
Right, that's exactly my reason too!!
01/28/2011
zeebot zeebot
Yeah, occasionally, when I wasn't getting anywhere, wasn't going to, and just wanted to give up and sleep. Not with anyone I actually cared about or felt comfortable asking to stop.
01/28/2011
brandyst brandyst
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Originally posted by kawigrl
just curious how many have faked the big O
I think at some point every women has for their partner
01/29/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
just curious how many have faked the big O
I have never faked an orgasm because I have always thought that it is an unfair and silly practice that can lead to further problems. With a partner you intend to be with for a while it can lead to him/her believing you actually like a certain type of touch or practice when in fact you are silently wishing they would just STOP. It's always better in the long AND short run to simply say that you are not enjoying what's going on or that you are unable to achieve orgasm but are enjoying yourself.
Both my partners know that when I orgasm is it honest and they just BEAM...when I can't, for whatever reason, they work with me to discover the cause and it has enriched our relationships.
01/29/2011
vegan.guy vegan.guy
Wow, I'm surprised how many people have faked orgasms.
01/30/2011
northstar northstar
Definitely in the past. I can't orgasm via penetration alone. With my current bf though, we're totally open and honest so no fakes
01/31/2011
Airekah Airekah
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Originally posted by kawigrl
just curious how many have faked the big O
I have never faked it. EVER
01/31/2011
Airekah Airekah
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I have never faked an orgasm because I have always thought that it is an unfair and silly practice that can lead to further problems. With a partner you intend to be with for a while it can lead to him/her believing you actually like a certain type ...
this is exactly how I feel.
01/31/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I never have. Never had to
01/31/2011
I Wear The Pants I Wear The Pants
I've faked it when I wasn't really in the mood and just wanted sex to be over with. After I reach a certain point I know that it's not going to happen and just want it to be over with.
01/31/2011
GoodMorningSunshine GoodMorningSunshine
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
just curious how many have faked the big O
For the first few months with the first boyfriend I had sex with, I faked it to make him happy, but out of nowhere, he got the hang of it and I didn't have to worry about that anymore. Occasionally I'll do it just to get something over with if I'm not in it, but never because my hunny can't get me off.
02/03/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I can see the temptation too, but in the end it is better to be honest so he can learn what works and what doesn't.
02/03/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
I never have. Never had to
lucky!
02/03/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Yes. I'd never had an orgasm when I first started having sex and I didn't know what it was supposed to be like. I started to think I just couldn't have one. I started playing with toys and trying to figure out what worked for me but I had a lot of bad toys before I realized what I needed and how to get there. And now that I know, I don't have to. And I'm older and wiser and realized that faking it wasn't helping anyone.
02/25/2011
Happy Camper Happy Camper
With all the noises and faces I make throughout sex, I think my partner might have definitely been misled and thought I had an orgasm when I didn't. But I don't consider that faking because the aroused reactions are very real and even I'm not always sure if I came or just enjoyed the hell out of myself. The usual tell tale sign is that I go numb usually to the point of being limp for about thirty seconds before I get super sensitive. And I'm pretty sure I couldn't fake THAT if I wanted to.
02/25/2011
Chirple Chirple
I faked one for Rocky Horror de-virginisation, does that count ? And I totally kicked ass at it.

But not during sex, no.
01/07/2012
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