There is little over a foot difference between my wife and I and sometimes it causes some difficulty in our sex lives (like certain positions). So what is the height difference between you and your spouse and how does it effect your sex life?
I have a cousin less than 5' tall with a husband that is 6'-4" - I don't wee how they do it! My wife and I are quite similar - as were all of my pre-marital affairs - so I have no experience to convey.
It doesn't affect me negatively at all. My partners have all been around the same relative height give or take about an inch and they always said it was the best height for sex and kissing etc. and in heels I'm not TOO tall-I would be if I were a few inches taller.
The difference between my partner and I is 6 inches.
I'm about 4" taller than my partner. Our legs are pretty much the exact same length (which is awesome for never having to adjust the seat in our vehicles!) but I've got a longer torso. Sex wise it doesn't really affect us at all. Though amusingly enough my partner was confused for at least the first two months we dated and thought we were the exact same height, I have no idea where she got that idea from (and she rarely/almost never wears heels, so it wasn't extra shoe height)!
Both my ex-husband and my last affair were 5'8" (I think they were shorter) and I'm 5'6", so I rarely wore heels (except The Boots - Mulder insisted I wear The Boots). They didn't object, but it made me feel weird having to lean my neck down to kiss. Isn't the guy supposed to do that?
We have a difference of about 9 " but when their is a will their is a way. We will have been married 35 years this month and I wouldn't trade my wife for anybody else. I have to bend sometimes but it keeps me fit.
We've got a difference of about 10" between us. I'm 5'2" and he's 6'. I really enjoy the difference between us in height because it allows us both to do things we never got to before, like he can perform oral on me while I'm sitting backwards on his shoulders. I can wear heels that are really tall without having to worry about being too tall. The only thing I don't like is sometimes having to stand on my toes to kiss, lol
I'm tiny so everyone is taller, but I've been with people pretty close and people waaaaaaaaaaay taller. It's just different with different people. Everything still works. Dancing is tough sometimes, but sex is fine.