How much foreplay before sex?

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How much foreplay before sex?

cobiffle cobiffle
I was wondering how much foreplay everybody else does before sex. We sometimes spend 40 minutes or so at least of just foreplay and it usually leads to everything feeling so much better. When we rush into it sometimes it does not feel as good for some reason but I guess because your bodies are not as ready for it.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
None
1-5 minutes
5-10 minutes
PinkPedal , eggiweg , married with children , CSEA
4  (18%)
10-15 minutes
PiratePrincess , liilii080 , SexyStuff , Cream in the Cupcake
4  (18%)
15-20 minutes
Gunsmoke , BadgersRose
2  (9%)
20-25 minutes
StrawberryEve , charip
2  (9%)
25 minutes or more
cobiffle , wetone123 , Checkmate , OhMy! , newlady , dhig , Elbert's Angel , cuntofdoom , potstickers , WierdAl
10  (45%)
Total votes: 22
Poll is closed
03/09/2011
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PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Usually just enough to get us really into it. Sometimes longer, but not usually unless it's a really sensual night.
03/09/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
We don't break it up into "Foreplay" and "the Main event." We touch each other, kiss, give oral, grab a dil, pet, get some toy play in, have some PIV, with or without maybe a butt plug, some more oral, maybe a little rimming for me, more oral, break out the Wahl, so I can come, then back to oral for me until I'm finished with that one, then he gets some oral sex, while he plays with me with a vibrator, then maybe some PIV, then we'll roll around and touch and hug, one or both of us usually has to pee by this time, so there will be a short break, then some more oral and kissing & PIV, then maybe some anal sex, and if he doesn't come from that, we will wash off and we'll go back to oral sex or PIV or a hand job. Any order of these. I try to come first, and usually more than once, but it varies what we do in what order.

I like this to last at least 2 hours, preferably 3, but it depends on the time of day, etc. Some mornings, we just get down to it, or have oral sex only. No rhyme or reason or order, just what feels good.

But, we've never been "he sucks, she sucks, they fuck, they come" couple. It's too predictable.
03/09/2011
NuMe NuMe
We needed an "other" button. LOL! For us it could be anywhere from none up to an hour. Just depends.
03/10/2011
Illusional Illusional
It varies on how worked up I am beforehand, and such.
03/10/2011
newlady newlady
I voted 25 minutes or more, but honestly, that really varies!
03/10/2011
married with children married with children
it depends on the mood. does oral count as foreplay? if so, i would vote for a lot longer then 5-10 minutes.
03/10/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
On average only 10-15, but on the weekends a lot more.
03/11/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
I am surprised so many people do have foreplay for so long because many women that I know complain about no foreplay at all.
03/15/2011
Elbert's Angel Elbert's Angel
Foreplay can go on for hours, sometimes I think my husband likes that better then intercourse. He says the anticipation excites him even more and makes it that much more intense when intercourse occurs.
03/15/2011
BadgersRose BadgersRose
It was a hard question really sometimes its more sometimes its less...but I will take however much I can get.
04/04/2011
cuntofdoom cuntofdoom
As previous posters have indicated, it varies with the situation, but with my partner it's always is like at least 20 minutes, if not the bulk of the sexytime.
04/04/2011
WierdAl WierdAl
Quote:
Originally posted by cobiffle
I was wondering how much foreplay everybody else does before sex. We sometimes spend 40 minutes or so at least of just foreplay and it usually leads to everything feeling so much better. When we rush into it sometimes it does not feel as good for ...
I like a lot of fore play it seems to set the mood and the orgasms.
09/26/2011
Total posts: 13
Unique posters: 12