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Cheating is depriving your partner of honesty. You have cheated them of trust, of time, of experiences and of your affection. What you do is less important than your reasons for breaking trust with your partner. I mean C'mon like porn we ALL know
Cheating is depriving your partner of honesty. You have cheated them of trust, of time, of experiences and of your affection. What you do is less important than your reasons for breaking trust with your partner. I mean C'mon like porn we ALL know when we are cheating. We can explain that feeling away all we want but we know when we are stepping close to the line let alone over it.
For us cheating comes into play when we decide to hide what we are doing and we close the door on the openness of our relationship. It's the intent that informs the cheating not the action for us. Sex and being sexual is incidental, it's the hiding and sneaking around that put trust in peril.
Very well said.
I did this poll because a co-worker of mine has actually said that she would break up with a guy if she ever found out that he masturbated. She considers masturbation to be cheating. Yes, even if he were to stroke himself in front of her to get hard she has said that is also cheating. That outside of peeing and cleaning that his hand on his junk constitutes another touching himself.
This mindset really blew me away and quite honestly she is very ignorant when it comes to sex and relationship. This is a twenty-three year old female that jumps in bed with a guy she just met (not judging) has three kids yet didn't know where her clit was, and has said on multiple occasions that the female orgasm is a myth. As in women don't have orgasms....not talking about female ejaculation mind you!
I was very curious to see what others would have to say, and what others view as cheating and quite honestly the answers haven't shocked me too much