Ok long story short my husband was severaly injured. He lost a leg and arm, and is still recouperating witch it will be a very very long procces. Before if we were home alone we would almost always have sex every chance we got. Sometimes not even sex, just making out in the shower or stuff like that. Now things have changed.
With that past, he has gotten the impression that I want multiplie orgasms everyday. Ok, so maybe I would like to have sex but its not something that I worry about. I know that its not really possible to have the ausome shower sex we use to have, or the way wede lay on top or eachother and hold eachother while wede make out for hours. Its just not possible to do the same stuff. What matters is he is here with me, but he doesnt get that. He is continuelsy feeling bad about the fact he pleasure me how he use to.
Ive told him over and over again all that matters is he made it back alive. That sex is not what my concern is.
He has always had a high sex drive, and still does. We will both be watching tv or something and he will become errect. Its sort of odd at that point because he wants to ejectulate, but knows that I probably wont have a great orgasm. I cant really give oral sex, I gag so easy its pathetic. Ime left with giving him a handjob/toys for at least 45 minutes, and well its getting to the point were he sais dont worry about it. When I become arroused and he notices my niples are hard he wants to make me orgasm. Witch he can but its not like it use to be witch is what he wants. He will give me oral, use a dildo or viberator on me along with Ile help myself out to. Its hard because ile become omcomfotable in that postion after a while and he can move right now, just not alot. So as I become uncomfortable I cant orgasm.
He just wants to make me orgasm, and all I want is for him to be happy. He beets himself up about it mentally.
He always tells me just go in the shower(he knows I use to masterbate in the shower) and have an orgasm without him. I personally dont wana go masterbate without him. I dont know exactly why but I just dont feel right even wanting to go masterbate without him.
We have a ausome friend who we would have some fun with before. We will have a threesome with him, and thats what he trually likes. Shes not always around thoe, and even then unless shes in the mood we wont. Hes knows ive fooled around with just her before(both me and her are bisexual)and has told me a million times its ok if I go have sex with her and that he doesnt care. I wana hit him upside the head when he sais that cause I know he cares.
Ok basicly what it comes down to is how do I make him feel better. I am sort of wondering what should I do to make him feel better about not just himself but making him enjoy his ejectualions more then he is. I bought up the idea of a swing, but he didnt like it one bit.
I cant lie an fake a orgasm, its just wrong and I couldnt do that. At the same time its hard to watch him upset.
With that past, he has gotten the impression that I want multiplie orgasms everyday. Ok, so maybe I would like to have sex but its not something that I worry about. I know that its not really possible to have the ausome shower sex we use to have, or the way wede lay on top or eachother and hold eachother while wede make out for hours. Its just not possible to do the same stuff. What matters is he is here with me, but he doesnt get that. He is continuelsy feeling bad about the fact he pleasure me how he use to.
Ive told him over and over again all that matters is he made it back alive. That sex is not what my concern is.
He has always had a high sex drive, and still does. We will both be watching tv or something and he will become errect. Its sort of odd at that point because he wants to ejectulate, but knows that I probably wont have a great orgasm. I cant really give oral sex, I gag so easy its pathetic. Ime left with giving him a handjob/toys for at least 45 minutes, and well its getting to the point were he sais dont worry about it. When I become arroused and he notices my niples are hard he wants to make me orgasm. Witch he can but its not like it use to be witch is what he wants. He will give me oral, use a dildo or viberator on me along with Ile help myself out to. Its hard because ile become omcomfotable in that postion after a while and he can move right now, just not alot. So as I become uncomfortable I cant orgasm.
He just wants to make me orgasm, and all I want is for him to be happy. He beets himself up about it mentally.
He always tells me just go in the shower(he knows I use to masterbate in the shower) and have an orgasm without him. I personally dont wana go masterbate without him. I dont know exactly why but I just dont feel right even wanting to go masterbate without him.
We have a ausome friend who we would have some fun with before. We will have a threesome with him, and thats what he trually likes. Shes not always around thoe, and even then unless shes in the mood we wont. Hes knows ive fooled around with just her before(both me and her are bisexual)and has told me a million times its ok if I go have sex with her and that he doesnt care. I wana hit him upside the head when he sais that cause I know he cares.
Ok basicly what it comes down to is how do I make him feel better. I am sort of wondering what should I do to make him feel better about not just himself but making him enjoy his ejectualions more then he is. I bought up the idea of a swing, but he didnt like it one bit.
I cant lie an fake a orgasm, its just wrong and I couldnt do that. At the same time its hard to watch him upset.
