Ladies, when you are being eaten out, do you ever start to worry that you're taking too long to get off?

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Ladies, when you are being eaten out, do you ever start to worry that you're taking too long to get off?

ViVix ViVix
So, I'm a chronic worrier. Despite the fact that I end up giving blow jobs for an hour, I still worry that when it's my turn, I take too long. Sometimes I even just turn it down. Do other girls worry about this?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes. I worry that I take too long at times.
41  (63%)
No. If I can last until he cums, he can last until I do!
13  (20%)
Other.
11  (17%)
Total votes: 65
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02/28/2012
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dbm6907 dbm6907
Just depends. Sometimes I just relax and let him go to town and other times I am more into giving him pleasure than recieving it.
02/28/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
I never finish from oral so... I don't worry?
02/28/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
So, I'm a chronic worrier. Despite the fact that I end up giving blow jobs for an hour, I still worry that when it's my turn, I take too long. Sometimes I even just turn it down. Do other girls worry about this?
If it is late at night or I know my guy is tired I will worry about taking too long...but I found out that Sigel knows when I am worrying and trying to speed up my orgasm and he will pretend to fall asleep or other such fooling around until I stop worrying and just enjoy myself.
02/28/2012
indiglo indiglo
While sometimes the thought will cross my mind during the act, I know in my heart that my partner could stay down there all day if I'd let him. He never puts time limits or pressure on me to "finish".

I also think that for the receiver, it's important not to get caught up in the idea that you MUST finish. Just enjoy how it feels and relax. (you're more likely to actually finish if you look at it that way too.)
02/28/2012
Mwar Mwar
Sometimes when he offers I know he's tired so I'll usually thank him and stop him earlier than normal. Other than that, I don't really worry.
02/28/2012
underHim underHim
not something i have ever had to worry about..not to brag about my husband again!
02/28/2012
quinceykay quinceykay
Yeah, I do... if I feel like I'm taking too long and I'm not close to getting off, I'll stop him, but I appreciate it anyway.
02/28/2012
TameTemptress TameTemptress
I always worry about that!
02/28/2012
FEEL.FREE FEEL.FREE
I never finish from oral, I need penetration to orgasm.
02/28/2012
HugsAndBites HugsAndBites
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
I never finish from oral so... I don't worry?
im the same
02/28/2012
Destri Destri
I have been known to worry that it is taking too long.
02/28/2012
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
So, I'm a chronic worrier. Despite the fact that I end up giving blow jobs for an hour, I still worry that when it's my turn, I take too long. Sometimes I even just turn it down. Do other girls worry about this?
it doenst bug me at all lol
02/28/2012
Nora Nora
I worry about how much time it takes me to get off no matter what the activity is! However, I find I can actually finish faster if I just relax and stop worrying about it!
02/28/2012
Rossie Rossie
It doesn't take long for my husband to make me come when he does both oral and fingering on me, he always performs wonderfully!
02/28/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
So, I'm a chronic worrier. Despite the fact that I end up giving blow jobs for an hour, I still worry that when it's my turn, I take too long. Sometimes I even just turn it down. Do other girls worry about this?
Yeah, I worry about it a lot. I used to be able to come at the drop of a hat. I would ask my lover to slow down or stop and do different things so I wouldn't come to soon. I used to, also, only get one orgasm per session. I can have multiple orgasms now, but after a number of years of easy multiple orgasms my ability to come has slowed down.

In fact, this is what prompted My Man to buy me my first sex toy. He felt bad because not only was it taking a long time (although he was willing to do whatever it took most of the time) he was worried about me, because I was giving up without coming and then was really sad or crabby until I could finally have an orgasm with him.

What we usually do is have him go down until I'm "almost" there, then I grab the Wahl while he fondles and plays with the rest of my body, messes with a dildo in me until I come. This, we found, is a little faster and I have better luck and am less likely to give up.

It works for us.

I, too, have given hour long blow jobs and am willing to do it, but around the 20 minute mark sometimes I start to think, "Is he going to?" But, I'll go the distance if he wants to. If I get really tired we'll switch to a hand job, or he'll jerk off while I play with him. Sometimes he even gives up. As you get older orgasm doesn't always happen and although it almost always does, we have to live with the inevitability that sometimes it just isn't going to happen. BUt, when it does.....whew!
02/28/2012
Taylor Taylor
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
I never finish from oral so... I don't worry?
Same here. If I don't come from oral (which so far has been 100% of the time) after a few minutes we will switch to something that will allow me to finish like toys. I guess I don't think about it as something to worry about as long as we are both enjoying ourselves.
02/28/2012
Dominekoyasha Dominekoyasha
I enjoy the lingering oral. Longer i go,the harder i cum.
02/28/2012
Sammi Sammi
I don't worry about it. He likes to give it as much as I like to get it, so it's all good
02/28/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Yep, all the time, and of course it just frustrates me and makes it take even longer! It drives me nuts, and my brain just goin&goin, ahhh, very annoying! ~sighs and blushes
02/28/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife is ready to move on before I am. Since we started using toys I have never been able to bring her off orally. So for us its foreplay. If we're doing a quickie it's short - if we're having a lot of fun, it'll last a lot longer. But in the end it just takes more stimulation than my poor tongue can dish out.
02/29/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
He doesn't go down on me. But I never worry about my orgasm during sex. Just relax and enjoy the sensations.
02/29/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
So, I'm a chronic worrier. Despite the fact that I end up giving blow jobs for an hour, I still worry that when it's my turn, I take too long. Sometimes I even just turn it down. Do other girls worry about this?
Sometimes I do but I try to relax and not worry. He knows he can stop when he wants if its taking too long
02/29/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
If it is late at night or I know my guy is tired I will worry about taking too long...but I found out that Sigel knows when I am worrying and trying to speed up my orgasm and he will pretend to fall asleep or other such fooling around until I stop ...
LOL! I would totally appreciate the humor.
03/01/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by TameTemptress
I always worry about that!
I'm glad I'm not the only one!
03/01/2012
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I don't. I've only been able to cum orally with one guy anyway, so with other partners, I'll tell them to move on when I'm ready. I don't like rushing sex.
03/01/2012
corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
I also worry that I don't take long enough sometimes...if my partner climaxed immediately when I was down there, I think it would be kind of a let down and I DREAD doing that to someone else.
03/01/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
I sometimes worry he's going to give up on me when I'm taking a while.
03/01/2012
Iron Man Iron Man
I really worry. bluh.
03/01/2012
bsgs bsgs
my wife sometimes worries about it, and wants me to stop because she thinks im getting tired of it...i just love eating her out. when she tells me to stop it kinda bums me out a bit, and i think i wasnt doing something right. she only does that once in a great while though, and only when shes stressed out about things and not able to relax
03/02/2012
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