Let's talk about sex

My sex life has never been a topic for day-to-day conversation. Men who engaged in 'locker-room' exchanges were derided as kiss-and-tell types. It seems that that attitude was accepted by my friends - so sex was not discussed. Nothing much has changed, the only person I talk to about sex is my wife - and a 'pen pal' from EF. We exchange experiences and ideas about what works with our spouses. This 'relationship' was completely unexpected - but has been very helpful to expanding my relationship with my wife.

once in awhile w/ 1 friend at a time, the topic briefly comes up. sadly, nothing's changed for any of us.

I keep most things to just between my wife and I. General stuff I dont mind talking about with friends.

pretty much just discussed with hubby. Nobody else asks or cares since we have been married for 29 years. Guess they think we don't have sex anymore!

Oh my good friends and I have detailed discussions about our sex lives all the time!

I only discuss sex-related topics with one close friend.

I'm pretty open when talking about sex, but I just don't have anyone who ever wants to actually talk about it. (besides my partner)
Every once and a while my mom and I will get talking and she'll confide something in me about her sex life, but we don't usually talk about mine ever. That's about it though.

I have no one in my life to talk about sex with except my partner so I have a couple of EF friends I communicate with via email but if I need a wide range of opinions to see more sides I post a forum question. I find the community here is very dependable at telling their honest opinion. The responses to questions I've posted have always come back frank and honest and I value each one. They ground me back to the reality of the outcome on a topic I'm questioning.

I would also suggest searching through the various forums, your question might have already been asked and answered. The community forum is well organized and categorized.

We're pretty private about our sex life.

I don't go around just telling everyone things, but I'm not totally closed off about it either.

I occasionally talk to my best friend about my sex life in general, but specifics are private.

Most of my friends and coworkers are pretty close minded when it comes to sex. That is where places like Eden are great to discuss things.