I have no one in my life to talk about sex with except my partner so I have a couple of EF friends I communicate with via email but if I need a wide range of opinions to see more sides I post a forum question. I find the community here is very dependable at telling their honest opinion. The responses to questions I've posted have always come back frank and honest and I value each one. They ground me back to the reality of the outcome on a topic I'm questioning.
I would also suggest searching through the various forums, your question might have already been asked and answered. The community forum is well organized and categorized.