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As a guy, I didn't feel there was anything to loose - it was all about gaining experience.
Females should feel the same way. The concept of "losing" something is bullshit, no one is taking anything away, both sides are, as you say, "gaining experience"!
Personally I only see "losing your virginity" as negative if you view it as negative, or if someone forced it on you. I'd say it's positive, if you view it as a good experience.