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Vnessa Vnessa
If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ". Then they straddle you (either forwards or backwards--whichever you prefer),they take your length in their hands along with your hands, lube up, and they say, "use my hands as if they were your own. But I don't want you to cum yet. You will have to let me know when you are close so I can stop"

The cumming will happen when the foreplay is all over

Would this be the beginnings to a hot evening or no? What would you like as a man??

I'm thinking, reverse straddle so one of his hands can guide me in my efforts while his other hand is toying with me Then, I'm in perfect position to be flipped for some rear action That's just me being greedy tho lol
03/18/2015
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Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ...
YES! I would like that very much. I'd like that for my birthday, Yom Kippur, Arbor day, Flag day, Sausage day, Columbus day, Wednesday, and any other day that ends in "y" and a few that do not end in "y". That is the opening to a great and very satisfying night. And its not greedy if he is willing to satisfy. It's similar to the expression, "You can't rape the willing."
03/19/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
YES! I would like that very much. I'd like that for my birthday, Yom Kippur, Arbor day, Flag day, Sausage day, Columbus day, Wednesday, and any other day that ends in "y" and a few that do not end in "y". That is the opening ...
I just laughed so loud, one of the girls in the office asked what was so funny! So, I take it that's a good plan and to roll with it lol.
03/19/2015
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I have for years encouraged my wife to touch herself to teach me what she likes. Part of it is a fantasy - she's a teacher, so the reference works. She's actually starting to enjoy doing it more now - maturity has its benefits.

When we first got our Pure Wand, I got her to experiment with it and teach me how to use it. With something hard and heavy like the PW, it was an excellent plan. She loved it, taught me what I needed to know - and lost much of her inhibition about talking about masturbation.

Even though I'm generally the more adventurous one - I've been reluctant to touch myself in front of her. However it works better when she's pegging me to have me do the stroking - so she can focus on the thrusting. Another barrier crossed for practical reasons.

We've also included 'directed' masturbation as a part of our Dom-Sub games. Recently, and unsolicited, she dipped her fingers vaginally then gave me a taste - I've wanted her to do that forever!

The most fun of all these activities is that it reinforces sex as a healthy playful way to deepen our relationship and have fun. Sometimes things completely fail - but we can laugh it off, because its a game - not some huge romantic 'moment'.

Keep experimenting - there is no wrong choice between consenting loving partners.
04/08/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I have for years encouraged my wife to touch herself to teach me what she likes. Part of it is a fantasy - she's a teacher, so the reference works. She's actually starting to enjoy doing it more now - maturity has its benefits.

When we ...
I love hearing when couples are so able to let go of their barriers and then be able to discuss some of their experiences/challenges . I think it helps me to do the same. To let go of the shyness that tends to creep in and helps me to embrace the sexual person I hope to be for my husband .

I think my curiosity lately has started to shock him a bit and has kept him on his toes lol. And, oh do we have laughter at times!!! If our walls could talk, it might make for a good sit-com during some of our 'experimenting' lol.
04/09/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I love hearing when couples are so able to let go of their barriers and then be able to discuss some of their experiences/challenges . I think it helps me to do the same. To let go of the shyness that tends to creep in and helps me to embrace the ...
Sex is supposed to be fun. Some people forget that.
04/09/2015
Rossie Rossie
I agree couples should be open with each other when it comes to sex. We're not shy telling what additional stimulation we want from each other, and that's how we get great sex.
04/09/2015
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I love hearing when couples are so able to let go of their barriers and then be able to discuss some of their experiences/challenges . I think it helps me to do the same. To let go of the shyness that tends to creep in and helps me to embrace the ...
I've gotten to the age were I have started to realize my limitations - ED, etc. When we're young we take too much for granted and that we'll have our health forever, sadly that's not the case.

Sometimes I regret how late in life my wife finally began responding in earnest to my lifelong endeavor to please her - so much time lost. But regret is not useful, I'm just happy for what I have and committed to keeping it going as long as the Cialis lasts!

Make the best of every opportunity you get.
04/09/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I've gotten to the age were I have started to realize my limitations - ED, etc. When we're young we take too much for granted and that we'll have our health forever, sadly that's not the case.

Sometimes I regret how late in ...
Cheers to that . I'm rapidly chasing 40 and if I knew then what I know now....oh have mercy lol. I just can't imagine the sexapades I would have had with my man!!! Oh, the possibilities lol.
04/09/2015
konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by Vnessa
If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ...
Been there, done that! Amazing...
07/29/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ...
Absolutely Yes, she's in trouble better have rested up, two can play at that game
10/21/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by NJ casanova
Absolutely Yes, she's in trouble better have rested up, two can play at that game
Nice avatar. Love smiling ones. How about a profile for us.
10/21/2015
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Vnessa
If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ...
Not for me. I have no interest in being edged. However, I have done similar things to people, so do I like edging people, sometimes.
10/21/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Nice avatar. Love smiling ones. How about a profile for us.
don't know what you mean?
10/21/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by NJ casanova
don't know what you mean?
@NJ cas... put your cursor over you avatar. It will say cont.. didn't publish own profile. Now put it over mine and it will show "Public Profile" to the right of "message me". After completing, members will be able to go to your page, wall and follow you and view your activities and followers/followees.
10/24/2015
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
If your partner wanted to know exactly how you liked to be touched, wanted your help showing exactly how you would grasp and stroke yourself, would you enjoy it?

Imagine your significant other saying, "show me how you touch yourself ...
I'm out. That is amazing! I've had a similar experience and loved it.
Jan 23, 10:23 pm
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