I'm frustrated because in order for me to get off and O, I need a lot of clit stimulation. For the first time I experienced what it feels like to have an O with one of my toys. Since I knew what it felt like my bf tried to use his fingers and play with my clit and I couldn't get off, it felt good and I moaned but I couldn't get off and his hands were getting tired so I was frustrated. He was frustrated that I couldn't get off from him and I tried getting him to use the toys to get me off and he didn't feel comfortable doing that because one of the toys looks like a penis and he said that is just uncomfortable to him and he wasn't really comfortable using the other one either.
I'm frustrated also that men can get off so easily but I can't get off by just intercourse, it seems like I need a toy to get off and I don't know how to make him comfortable with it or make him comfortable with using one to get me off. It feels very unfair that he can get off every time we have sex but I can't and need a toy in order to get off. I don't know what to do but I'm sexually frustrated from this.