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Suggestions?

Alluring_Irony Alluring_Irony
So I was trying to think up new ideas on how to turn my guy on. I want to surprise him when he comes home from work, so any suggestions? Or you could even just suggest things you've done for your guys/ or your gals have done for you.
08/08/2009
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Alluring_Irony Alluring_Irony
And please keep in mind that I'm a plus size woman.
08/08/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Why not surprise him at work with sexy calls, texts or e-mails? A note in his lunchbox or briefcase? Or maybe not a note. Slip in a blindfold or feather tickler or something similar and small
08/08/2009
Valyn Valyn
You could try setting the scene.. I know guys don't usually go "Awww" at seeing a room full of candles (placed safely away from flammable stuff!), but it would definitely be a sexy surprise.

That, or food! The way to a man's heart is through his stomach, right? Cook a nice special meal, and get some wine or champagne and strawberries and chocolate for dessert

I'd suggest letting him know something is going on, though. Just a quick text or call to make sure he's not bringing home a business contact or telling the guys to meet up at your place!
08/08/2009
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
1. Rent a movie he really wants to see that you can tolerate. Something with a lot of adrenaline if he's into that. I've found that guys who like fast-paced action movies are often turned on at the end of them.

2. Watch the movie with him, while wearing a silky nightgown or robe with only hints of sexy exposed: like cleavage but no nipples. Let him paw at you during the movie, but don't let his hands under the gown anywhere. If and when his hands start to go under the gown, just go get a drink, use the bathroom - anything to walk away and stop him without being too obvious.

This works pretty good for me - I think it's just the element of the action movie plus a woman dressed in a sexy gown together that really gets to them. I know you said you are plus sized - there are actually some pretty nice silky feeling gowns and robes at Target and Kmart for plus sized women.
08/08/2009
Alluring_Irony Alluring_Irony
Well I can't send anything with him. He's a cook in the Navy and he's currently only in the office or going down to the boat.
08/08/2009
spicywife spicywife
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Originally posted by Alluring_Irony
Well I can't send anything with him. He's a cook in the Navy and he's currently only in the office or going down to the boat.
How about the other suggestions? Also, you could surprise him with some body oil for a massage and maybe a cock ring, which would be pleasing to both of you.

I've surprised my husband with buying him a sex toy, like a prostate massager. He just likes the idea that I've put thought into something - most anyone appreciates that!
08/08/2009
Alluring_Irony Alluring_Irony
He doesn't like massages, dunno why. And I'm more than sure he wouldn't want a cock ring, and he doesn't like for me to mess with his perineum....
08/08/2009
Juliettia Juliettia
As a woman who is also plus size with a husband who works on a different schedule than I do, I go to bed in a sexy outfit (chamber maid, open bust baby doll, just a thong) so that when he crawls into bed he's like "oooo hot". Sometimes I'll wake up early before he gets home and do the whole sexy outfit thing and wait in a room I know he'll enter standing in a nice position.

While watching TV or something, get down in front of him and give him oral. Don't expect anything in return though. Sometimes it just helps turn him on for later. At least in my experience.
08/08/2009
Alluring_Irony Alluring_Irony
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Originally posted by Juliettia
As a woman who is also plus size with a husband who works on a different schedule than I do, I go to bed in a sexy outfit (chamber maid, open bust baby doll, just a thong) so that when he crawls into bed he's like "oooo hot". Sometimes ...
Ya, earlier he got out of the shower and I was sitting in the recliner and he came up to me in just boxers. So I opened them up and started on him, them moved to the bedroom and well let's just say it ended in me horny as hell, and him happy... *le sigh*
08/08/2009
NuMe NuMe
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Originally posted by Alluring_Irony
Ya, earlier he got out of the shower and I was sitting in the recliner and he came up to me in just boxers. So I opened them up and started on him, them moved to the bedroom and well let's just say it ended in me horny as hell, and him happy... ...
Good! Once you get your creative juices flowing it will come easier. I'm one who likes to set scenes including dressing up sexy.

The one thing though that drives my hubby the craziest is where he has to lay perfectly still, as though he is tied up but really isn't, and I tease the crap out of him. He can't move unless or until I tell him to.
08/08/2009
spicywife spicywife
You might also want to check out the sex fantasy's here on Eden, you might find something that you like or that will inspire you.
08/08/2009
Alluring_Irony Alluring_Irony
I did find something I liked, hopefully I can do it really soon. He's going out to sea next month some time for a month or two.
08/09/2009
pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by Alluring_Irony
So I was trying to think up new ideas on how to turn my guy on. I want to surprise him when he comes home from work, so any suggestions? Or you could even just suggest things you've done for your guys/ or your gals have done for you.
answer the door naked. Or cook in heels and a thong
11/27/2010
pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by Alluring_Irony
So I was trying to think up new ideas on how to turn my guy on. I want to surprise him when he comes home from work, so any suggestions? Or you could even just suggest things you've done for your guys/ or your gals have done for you.
Wear just a coat...a knee length over coat to pick him up..or maybe with nothing but bra and panties underneath!
11/27/2010
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