Teaching someone how to kiss

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Teaching someone how to kiss

ToyQuest ToyQuest
Help! I have a new partner, and he's a TERRIBLE kisser. He's one of those who tries to eat your face - entire tongue in my mouth, his mouth covering the entire area around my mouth (from my nose down to my chin), I swear he's trying to bite my entire lips and whatnot...I'm pretty sure I'm only the second person he's ever kissed, so he probably doesn't know how to kiss. How do I teach him how to kiss? I love that he's excited and wants to kiss me, but I am not thrilled about all the spit that ends up on my chin and around my mouth.
09/30/2011
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Ansley Ansley
Oh, that's a hard one! Compliment his enthusiasm, for sure. I would probably go for the "here, let me show you how I like to be kissed" route, instead of pointing out all of the flaws. He may become self-conscious if it comes across as criticism or a dislike on your part.
09/30/2011
ToyQuest ToyQuest
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Originally posted by Ansley
Oh, that's a hard one! Compliment his enthusiasm, for sure. I would probably go for the "here, let me show you how I like to be kissed" route, instead of pointing out all of the flaws. He may become self-conscious if it comes across as ...
I was thinking about saying, "let me take the lead in kissing." He kissed me and there was no warm up, he went straight for tongue in mouth. Yikes!
09/30/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
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Originally posted by ToyQuest
Help! I have a new partner, and he's a TERRIBLE kisser. He's one of those who tries to eat your face - entire tongue in my mouth, his mouth covering the entire area around my mouth (from my nose down to my chin), I swear he's trying to ...
If you are dating and comfortable talking to eachother, I;d just try and be sexy about it! Say something like "Let me show you how they kiss in the big leagues" or something playful, that isn't insulting!
09/30/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by ToyQuest
I was thinking about saying, "let me take the lead in kissing." He kissed me and there was no warm up, he went straight for tongue in mouth. Yikes!
Yuck! I'd say something like "take it easy there, big fella!" and then try to go from there. I think it's one of those things you just have to feel out in the moment, you know? I wish you luck!
09/30/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
My boyfriend had to teach me how to kiss. He said the first couple times, I kissed like a fish, because I didn't move my lips at all. But after a few tries, I got more comfortable with it. And now I'm awesome.
Funny story; the first time he used his tongue, I freaked out, and almost fell off my bed. I had no idea what was happening. He said I looked terrified.
09/30/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
Tell him you'd like too take the lead, hold his face gently between your palms while you kiss him, and kiss him the way you like to be kissed. Alternately, tell him you'd like to teach him how you like to be kissed, repeat the above steps.
09/30/2011
ToyQuest ToyQuest
Thanks for all the great ideas everyone! I was thinking something along these lines, but needed it confirmed.

My first kiss was terrible - he called me "rapid fire" because I was all about the quick little kisses and not getting into it and really making out. Then I hooked up with another friend and he gave me one little pointer, and from then on, it's been smooth sailing.

I will post an update once we've got kissing down and how I went about doing it.
10/01/2011
ToyQuest ToyQuest
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Originally posted by Ryuson
If you are dating and comfortable talking to eachother, I;d just try and be sexy about it! Say something like "Let me show you how they kiss in the big leagues" or something playful, that isn't insulting!
we're not dating, but we're comfortable talking and he's definitely willing to learn!
10/01/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
That's a tough one. No one wants to be told that what they do to you isn't "working". I've left a bf in the past for being a horrible kisser. That's a hard thing to teach someone to be better at. Good luck
10/01/2011
WierdAl WierdAl
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Originally posted by ToyQuest
Help! I have a new partner, and he's a TERRIBLE kisser. He's one of those who tries to eat your face - entire tongue in my mouth, his mouth covering the entire area around my mouth (from my nose down to my chin), I swear he's trying to ...
Never done that, I had to have somone teach me how to kiss.
10/01/2011
ToyQuest ToyQuest
I know - I feel like it's something that has to be approached delicately, so I wanted to get some thoughts on this, because I'm sure I'm not alone in this matter.
10/01/2011
ToyQuest ToyQuest
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Originally posted by WierdAl
Never done that, I had to have somone teach me how to kiss.
How did your partner teach you how to kiss?
10/01/2011
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