I am looking for advice from the female crowd concerning my wife. She has never had a true sex drive that works for us. I have toned down my comments, requests, and pretty much gave up on ever expecting things to change. We have been married for over 10 yrs. I have always felt that 90% of our sex life is just done to satisfy me but without the fire of desire from her. I have tried about everything I know to do to help things out from just going without, introducing toys, romance, anger, frustration, depressed from lack of attention...wait I got carried away there. She does work, and we have two kids so I know she is tired some. However, I cook, clean, wash clothes, and take the kids to school, so she has it good. She has suffered some depression in her life and the medication didn't help but she has been off of it for a year and we are doing better than ever except sexually. We do have sex and when we do 99% of the time she does reach orgasm. Just so I don't go too far, (or have I?) I know for a fact there(100%) is no one else....we are inseparable other than our work place and that is only 1/2 mile apart. 10 years of high sex drive for me and 10 years of low sex drive for her. I know she has her complaints too, but any suggestions will be tried if they are reasonable.