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I am a woman who never has, and never will. My question is...if YOU do, why? What is the real reason you feel compelled to do that? Please explain.
Never have done it! Just like the (mostly) myth of "bigger means better," I think this too is mostly a myth for more women than not. I haven't ever had the desire to fake an orgasm and have always seen it as something that would only do myself
damage since my partner would think I was enjoying something that I wasn't. And if I'm talking about my partner, if he notices me enjoying something, he ain't gonna forget it and chances are, he'll continue to do it if he thinks I enjoy it. So I'd only be hurting myself by faking orgasms. Plus, I've never seen much use in it. I don't have to fake them though since they come easily for me through intercourse (or foreplay, or oral and many others!) with my partner.
Great topic! Glad you brought this up. I'm interested to hear about other ladies too!