Does the G Spot really exist? If so, how do you know ? Can you actually feel where it is ? A man's P spot, one can feel and hear when massaged with an adequate dildo.

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Does the G Spot really exist? If so, how do you know ? Can you actually feel where it is ? A man's P spot, one can feel and hear when massaged with an adequate dildo.

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Whether the G-spot exists is a matter of debate. Popularized by a 1982 book, the G-spot is a region found behind the pubic bone that has been credited as the trigger for a vaginal (vs. clitoral) orgasm, and even a catalyst for female ejaculation. However, some experts note that there’s no unique anatomical structure where the G-spot is supposed to be located. If the G-spot exists, it’s best described as an erogenous zone rather than a part of a woman’s anatomy.
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Knickersketchy , lala22
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Vnessa Vnessa
(The choices are fantastic!!).

Okay, back to topic. For years I thought it was a myth. Boyfriends never laid a finger on it, heck, I couldn't even find it!!! Why, you ask?? Because mine isn't where all text books state it is.

It wasn't until I finally started trying actual Gspot vibrators that I knew it was actually somewhere deep in the abyss lol. I had to try different positions to actually stimulate it myself! So, my little G is actually way further back into my channel than anything I had ever read or learned. I have to reach deep to get to it. I would also say its more of an erogenous zone than one little spot. At least for me . I can massage a general area and when I finally reach it, stimulate it, O M G....its fireworks and I am screaming at the top of my lungs ( no matter who is in the house ooopsie).
03/12/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
(The choices are fantastic!!).

Okay, back to topic. For years I thought it was a myth. Boyfriends never laid a finger on it, heck, I couldn't even find it!!! Why, you ask?? Because mine isn't where all text books state it is. ...
Sounds like from your testimony, it does exist.

Anyone else?
03/12/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
It's real! I can't give too much detail in how I know but it is real. Some women don't like it stimulated though. I have no idea why. To each his or her own.
03/12/2015
Svenson Svenson
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Originally posted by Vnessa
(The choices are fantastic!!).

Okay, back to topic. For years I thought it was a myth. Boyfriends never laid a finger on it, heck, I couldn't even find it!!! Why, you ask?? Because mine isn't where all text books state it is. ...
That's interesting. About how deep do you think it is? If it's REALLY deep, it's possible that you're stimulating the AFE zone, or "A-spot" instead I'm not a woman, so this topic has me curious lol.
03/12/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
Yea, the A-Spot, as I can testify, gives orgasms as long as it is being stimulated, it's near the cervix and lucky you if the guy hit it continuously.....I screamed my head off too!! (for 2 hours)

The G-spot exists too. That is one of the reasons my favorite toy is the butterfly kiss...it has an adequate g-spot slant and since the g-spot is hard to locate sometimes, they make it extra big. I discovered that I had one years ago and it's been a favorite spot ever since. (besides the stupendous A-Spot) It's a spongy area somewhat near the front and located approximately near the clit, only inside.
03/13/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
Svenson, I followed your link and whether or not they can prove it or not, I enjoy whatever it is.

One other thought, I was reading up on this too a while back and it said that drs, when giving a pelvic are taught to avoid this area.
03/13/2015
Svenson Svenson
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Originally posted by symbiasin
Yea, the A-Spot, as I can testify, gives orgasms as long as it is being stimulated, it's near the cervix and lucky you if the guy hit it continuously.....I screamed my head off too!! (for 2 hours)

The G-spot exists too. That is one ...
I guess it varies from woman to woman, but about how long does a guy need to be to be able to hit the a-spot?
03/13/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
(The choices are fantastic!!).

Okay, back to topic. For years I thought it was a myth. Boyfriends never laid a finger on it, heck, I couldn't even find it!!! Why, you ask?? Because mine isn't where all text books state it is. ...
It is very cool to hear that you have a deep G-Spot too. The Secretary also has a deep G-Spot and after searching and searching to find its exact place once we found it it was awesome!

Now with that being said....

Here is a fantastic new position for you deep G-Spot girls....

Its called the SUPERMAN!!!

Now I laughed at the name and brushed it off until I tried it for the first time and trust me I never laughed at it again.

Ladies you lie flat face down on the bed legs closed. Your man puts a small pillow under the spot right above your vagina. This tilts your hips slightly up to your man.

Now the trick is to open up your hips while keeping your legs closed. If you pull this off right (you may need to adjust the pillow a little bit) you will find that hes hitting your G-Spot dead on. The reason is (Now your man man have to be a bit on the longer larger side... but...) he will be essentially on the back of your thighs penetrating you from behind but at this angle your actually coming down and rubbing against the front wall of your vagina where your G-Spot is sitting waiting to be stimulated.

Hence its like someone is riding Superman!

Enjoy!!! You can thank me later!
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
(The choices are fantastic!!).

Okay, back to topic. For years I thought it was a myth. Boyfriends never laid a finger on it, heck, I couldn't even find it!!! Why, you ask?? Because mine isn't where all text books state it is. ...
Oh and.... If you really want to have an orgasm that will short circuit your brain... use an hitachi to poke out of the bottom of the pillow to stimulate your clit while your being penetrated.

Don't blame me if your brain melts....
03/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Oh and.... If you really want to have an orgasm that will short circuit your brain... use an hitachi to poke out of the bottom of the pillow to stimulate your clit while your being penetrated.

Don't blame me if your brain melts....
I am definitely NOT going to pass up ANYTHING that is going to render me speechless or short circuit my brain lol. I will always say, yes please to my husband, when and what time should I be ready! Lol.

I don't have a Hitachi yet!!! I need one
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I am definitely NOT going to pass up ANYTHING that is going to render me speechless or short circuit my brain lol. I will always say, yes please to my husband, when and what time should I be ready! Lol.

I don't have a Hitachi yet!!! I ...
Head down to rite aid... They sell them there and they are labled as "Back Massagers" same thing... less expensive.

The secretary calls it insta-orgasm LOL!
03/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Head down to rite aid... They sell them there and they are labled as "Back Massagers" same thing... less expensive.

The secretary calls it insta-orgasm LOL!
Next stop on errand list: Rite Aid!! Woot Woot I'm actually out now (getting the princess's hair done so I can make this happen) lol
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Next stop on errand list: Rite Aid!! Woot Woot I'm actually out now (getting the princess's hair done so I can make this happen) lol
As funny as this sounds... ours actually has a setting that heats the massaging end. Some rite aids actually do sell the actual same Hitachi eden sells.

I pulled the Oh I need some gum... some paper clips... a candy bar... this birthday card... a power aid and just this "back massager" LOL.

There was nobody in the store then all of the sudden im in a line with like 10 people behind me LOL.

I turned around to leave and saw that people blatantly saw what I bought... and I think I said yep... and shes going to love it too! LMAO!

They didn't think that was so classy LOL!
03/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
As funny as this sounds... ours actually has a setting that heats the massaging end. Some rite aids actually do sell the actual same Hitachi eden sells.

I pulled the Oh I need some gum... some paper clips... a candy bar... this birthday ...
O M G I can totally picture that! That would be my luck. Awesome lol. Maybe I can sucker my daughter into paying for it!!! She would be clueless lol . Or, I can loudly say, sweetie, this will be perfect for your BACK!!! Maybe my dignity will remain intact lol
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
O M G I can totally picture that! That would be my luck. Awesome lol. Maybe I can sucker my daughter into paying for it!!! She would be clueless lol . Or, I can loudly say, sweetie, this will be perfect for your BACK!!! Maybe my dignity will remain ...
You know... as funny as it sounds some times you just need to man up and buy a sex toy.

And I am saying that in regards to myself. Since then what I do is I got to the cutest lady in the Pharmacy/Lingerie Shop/Sex toy shop... smile put it on the counter and have an honest discussion about what I put on the counter.

I used to be terrified about going into Victorias Secret until I realized that you show those ladies confidence and they love it.

The truth is... I have found out that most ladies find it very sexy to have those things bought for them and ladies also respect a guy who isn't scared shit-less to buy them. I buy and pick out all of my wife's underwear myself. Sometimes even BY myself. She loves it when I do that.

Truth be told If I could only go back in time and tell myself these things when I was a teenager. That's right... I'm going to use these condoms to have sex... that's right I'm going to pleasure myself with this... that's right shes only going to wear these for a few minutes until I either gently pull them aside of slide them off of her.
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
You know... as funny as it sounds some times you just need to man up and buy a sex toy.

And I am saying that in regards to myself. Since then what I do is I got to the cutest lady in the Pharmacy/Lingerie Shop/Sex toy shop... smile put it on ...
And by honest discussion I don't mean hey "I am going to ram this toy into my wife tonight"... its more "I figured I might stop by and pick up something to spice the night up".

I didn't mean to sound creepy about that LOL.

I actually had one girl flirt with me even after she saw my wedding ring and she was checking out some skimpy lacy underwear for my wife. I pulled a Die Hard two... Just the panties mam... just the panties. LOL!
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
And by honest discussion I don't mean hey "I am going to ram this toy into my wife tonight"... its more "I figured I might stop by and pick up something to spice the night up".

I didn't mean to sound creepy about ...
The really funny part is the fact that I just took ours out of the closet and made her massage my back with it.

Then I did her back and I jokingly slipped it around her leg and she grabbed it and moved it to the right place for me to rub it against with her tight stretch pants on... It was getting pretty hot until my 1 year old came in and jumped on her face.... But she promised me I could finish it later tonight.

YAY FOR ME!!!

I asked her if she was anywhere near an orgasm and she said it would probably be a bit less than one more minute and she would have cum for me.

I hope she will let me do that later on... (then let me lick her clean after she cums for me!!!!)

Hell I might cum just from getting to taste her!
03/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
And by honest discussion I don't mean hey "I am going to ram this toy into my wife tonight"... its more "I figured I might stop by and pick up something to spice the night up".

I didn't mean to sound creepy about ...
That is so awesome lol. Women can be so shameless! Oy vey. It's sexy that you shop for the secretary. You are very on point, women get off on that.
03/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The really funny part is the fact that I just took ours out of the closet and made her massage my back with it.

Then I did her back and I jokingly slipped it around her leg and she grabbed it and moved it to the right place for me to rub it ...
Lol oh the interesting moments of parenthood ; ) The predicaments we can find ourselves in can be quite funny.

I am so getting me one of these little gadgets!!!!
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
That is so awesome lol. Women can be so shameless! Oy vey. It's sexy that you shop for the secretary. You are very on point, women get off on that.
I cant lie... I have no shame. It turned me on that she flirted with me. Kinda assured me that I still had it! LOL!
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Lol oh the interesting moments of parenthood ; ) The predicaments we can find ourselves in can be quite funny.

I am so getting me one of these little gadgets!!!!
Yep our is a con-air. And Eden also sells pillows that can hold them so you can turn the toy into a riding toy. We are buying one and will be revewing it soon.
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Yep our is a con-air. And Eden also sells pillows that can hold them so you can turn the toy into a riding toy. We are buying one and will be revewing it soon.
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This is ours
03/14/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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This is ours
To soothe aching muscles? That about describes it...
03/14/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
You know... as funny as it sounds some times you just need to man up and buy a sex toy.

And I am saying that in regards to myself. Since then what I do is I got to the cutest lady in the Pharmacy/Lingerie Shop/Sex toy shop... smile put it on ...
I do it all the time. That is one thing I can thank my sister for. She was lazy and use to make me buy her tampons when we were younger. I realize that tampons and vibrators are very different, but, I learned a little something.

Did you know that V.S. actually wants men in their stores? Their reason is a bit nefarious though. The thought is that many of the men will buy whatever the sales person suggests just to get out of the store as quickly as possible. This tactic increases their sales.

It's funny, I was in a V.S. looking for some cute bloomers for the partner and one of the managers was on the sales floor. She thought I was clueless and ashamed to be there, but, she was wrong. After a short terse conversation, she adjusted her tone and was more accommodating to me.

You are also dead on about confidence. I have also found, at least with my partner, she does enjoy these little surprises. I really thought I was the only one who picked out her underwear. It's good to know that I'm not alone .
03/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Yep our is a con-air. And Eden also sells pillows that can hold them so you can turn the toy into a riding toy. We are buying one and will be revewing it soon.
I've seen the pillow! Looking forward to the review. I thought it was pure genius!

So...back to the wand. The heat settings...does the secretary like them or are they just a wasted feature? How's the power on erogenous zones and other parts of the body?
03/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I do it all the time. That is one thing I can thank my sister for. She was lazy and use to make me buy her tampons when we were younger. I realize that tampons and vibrators are very different, but, I learned a little something.

Did you know ...
Inquisitor... if we only had a time machine to tell ourselves earlier right? LOL!

Yes sir you are not alone.
03/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I've seen the pillow! Looking forward to the review. I thought it was pure genius!

So...back to the wand. The heat settings...does the secretary like them or are they just a wasted feature? How's the power on erogenous zones and ...
She has told me they are too intense. However she has only tried playing with it skin on toy. Now as far as the Hitachi goes I have heard many a lady tell me that the only way it is fun to play with those toys is to leave your panties on to get used to the vibration with some sort of barrier to cut the intensity. I am all about her doing that.

As far as the heat goes... she likes it because if she is pleasuring herself with it or just receiving a massage she prefers it to be closer to body temperature.

Have fun! Id like to hear your opinion as well did you get one?
03/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
She has told me they are too intense. However she has only tried playing with it skin on toy. Now as far as the Hitachi goes I have heard many a lady tell me that the only way it is fun to play with those toys is to leave your panties on to get used ...
And as far as other zones...

She really has only had regular massages with it and she loves it everywhere else.

I sure do! I have a really bad back and it feels great to use there.
03/15/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
And as far as other zones...

She really has only had regular massages with it and she loves it everywhere else.

I sure do! I have a really bad back and it feels great to use there.
Fantastic. There's a Hitachi style on sale here right now OR I can go for the drug store version with heat settings . So, I was trying to decide on the better option. Hubby has sore backs a lot so maybe the one with heat settings might be a more BANG for your buck option. I might go that route! Stay tuned
03/15/2015
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