Some girls/women don't reach orgasm, and others definitely have a unique expression/reaction/ex perience. The 1st time I had sex, it was her 1st time too (didn't have any idea at the time). When I reached my orgasm I looked down at her with a GIANT GRIN, and she was all arched backward with her face pointing above her head, her mouth wide open, and she wasn't breathing. OMG!! I've Killed Her!! And then I felt her body begin to gently quiver and I just kept doing what I had been doing. THAT was a (beautiful) mess, and quite pungent, but I'll never forget how she glowed afterward! A later girlfriend was a couple of years older than myself, and she had WET ORGASMS! My prior girlfriend didn't do this, but it made me feel kind of special because this girl was more mature and I could make her lose control to that extent - and she was well endowed, on the pill, and I found that I had this ability to drive her ABSOLUTELY GAH-GAH!! She was LOUD, too, so I wasn't worried about the puddle when we were done. In fact, I took it to mean that I had done EVERYTHING RIGHT! ;-) Of course, girlfriends/wives since have never come close to this level of ecstasy. But, like I said, every relationship is unique.