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Ok, I've read a bunch about G-spot stimulation but every time I try it with my girlfriend she says it's uncomfortable and wants to stop. She's urinated before trying, but I think maybe part of it is she's scared of peeing (even though
Ok, I've read a bunch about G-spot stimulation but every time I try it with my girlfriend she says it's uncomfortable and wants to stop. She's urinated before trying, but I think maybe part of it is she's scared of peeing (even though I've told her it's normal but doesn't actually happen - usually?)? I've tried in several positions with fingers and also the pure wand.
Can anyone help me overcome her issues? Has anyone had similar experiences? I want her to be able to at least try to have a g-spot orgasm, but it doesn't get very far
I definitely still have the "have-to-pee" feeling. But to me, by now, it indicates that I'm close. I usually need more diffuse pressure. One thing that helped me was a Hitachi or even firm palm pressure right above my pubic bone (slightly to my right, because I'm built differently I guess).
That sort of pressure makes it more diffuse, if that makes any sense? So it helps me build slowly to orgasm, rather than the intensity of direct, internal finger/dildo pressure.
Has she tried an item like Lelo Pleasure System Beads? Those or Gyneflex (the Lelo ones are sexier and ... ahem ... $25 on Amazon). Helped me feel more in control of whether I'd pee or come. I have both, and the Lelo work quickly, as in...a week or two. Without trying very hard!
I've peed once before and was mortified. Towels suck. Giving the Liberator blankie a shot. I dunno. I'll see if it works for me and report back.
Good luck, I think most women have to go through this song and dance before they become comfortable with female ejaculation. Society? Maybe. Either way, I hope things work out.
The mental pressure can be rough on me, so I used to have a glass of wine prior (plus, red wine seems to flush my body and make me frisky) as well as a niacin tablet. Relaxed me and got the blood flowing.