What should I do to help me have my first G-spot orgasm?

Girly Juice Girly Juice
I can feel I'm getting close, but I just can't seem to move past that "plateau" phase. What do you recommend? What worked for you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Relax/get comfortable
Passion plum , DreamWolf , Gunsmoke , Ly-Ra , married with children , TakeHimAway , NarcissisticLust , Ms. N , sweetpea12 , ginainohio , sexykiss , ghalik , Tiffany Rose , Pi , unfulfilled , hybridinsurge , potstickers , Bittenflame , Kimberlythai1955 , 3TLOVER
20
Get turned on
Passion plum , DreamWolf , Gunsmoke , Bullfroggy and Rose , Ly-Ra , married with children , TakeHimAway , theavocadopit , NarcissisticLust , Ms. N , sweetpea12 , ghalik , Tiffany Rose , Pi , unfulfilled , hybridinsurge , potstickers , Bittenflame
18
Use a toy (please tell me which one!)
DreamWolf , Gunsmoke , married with children , TakeHimAway , Ms. N , sweetpea12 , ghalik , Tiffany Rose , potstickers
9
Use a partner's penis/dildo (please tell me which positions!)
Gunsmoke , TakeHimAway , ghalik , Tiffany Rose
4
Use a partner's fingers (any tips?)
Gunsmoke , Bullfroggy and Rose , ghalik , Tiffany Rose , Pi , potstickers
6
Use my own fingers (any tips?)
Gunsmoke , ghalik , Tiffany Rose , Pi , potstickers
5
Go hard and fast
Passion plum , Gunsmoke , Ly-Ra , married with children , TakeHimAway
5
Go hard and slow
Passion plum , Gunsmoke , Bullfroggy and Rose , TakeHimAway , ghalik , potstickers
6
Read a book on G-spot orgasms (any recommendations?)
DreamWolf , Gunsmoke , married with children , TakeHimAway , NarcissisticLust , ghalik , Pi , potstickers , Bittenflame
9
Other?
Passion plum , DreamWolf , Gunsmoke , ghalik
4
Total votes: 86 (22 voters)
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05/10/2012
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Passion plum Passion plum
Get comfortable and relax.
05/10/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Getting relaxed, comfortable and turned on are needed and mighty helpful things to achieve such things... I did vote for a toy, a vibe supposedly, because what if vrooms will be what increase the pleasure properly? Also, I didn't choose doing anything hard, because what if a more gentle tease will work for your personal taste... And though there are excellent books on such topics, you can just go ahead and browse about such topics on the net, even find ebooks to download...

And whatever else helps you to create the right atmosphere is suggested as well... For example if you need a certain kind of thing in your environment, or mind, and if watching erotic movies helps, not to mention if your mood needs certain elements in such things to help you... It really depends on how experimenting you are, and how relaxed and tuned in - the rest will just follow, what counts is that you read about it if you don't have the needed technical knowledge yet, and that you treat yourself the way you need to be treated for a most pleasant experience... ^^
05/10/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm an all of the above kinda guy. My wife had no interest in her g-spot and little interest in sex at all. My motivation was that if she enjoyed it more - she would want to do it more. After 22+ years I can report moderate success!

Back to the g-spot. After reading about it - I turned the more or less normal act of fingering her during foreplay it to a purposeful search for her g-spot. So using the classic come-hither stroking of the top of her vagina and combining it with some oral action on her clitoris - we found it!

A lot of the battle is finding it. In my opinion you should be somewhat aroused before even probing. It seems that the g-spot is erectile tissue that enlarges with increased blood flow to the genitalia.

It was quite sometime before finding it - lead to anything more than mildly pleasant sensations for her. There may be a feeling of needing to urinate that you have to get over - this happens because the g-spot surrounds the urethra and when it engorges it puts some pressure on the urethra. But you have voided before getting started - things will be OK.

What we find most effective for delivering combined orgasms - those that involve the vagina and clitoris are a combination of a dildo and a clit vibe like Mimi or Mystic Wand.

For the penetrator her current favorites are:
Pure Wand, VixSkin Johnny, G4 Big Boss, Mona and occasionally a rabbit toy like Decadent Indulgence.

Most off all - don't try too hard, keep a sense of humor, be patient and enjoy the journey!
05/11/2012
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
Keep trying you can do it.From your poll looks like you already know what it takes.
05/11/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by Girly Juice
I can feel I'm getting close, but I just can't seem to move past that "plateau" phase. What do you recommend? What worked for you?
05/16/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Girly Juice
I can feel I'm getting close, but I just can't seem to move past that "plateau" phase. What do you recommend? What worked for you?
I haven't been able to gush yet, but a friend of mine highly suggests the Expert Guide to the G Spot Orgasm.
05/16/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Girly Juice
I can feel I'm getting close, but I just can't seem to move past that "plateau" phase. What do you recommend? What worked for you?
Do as much research as you can and do all of the above
06/06/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
Don't put so much pressure on achieving orgasm, it'll stress you out and then it won't happen. Also I've heard a kneading or tapping motion on the g-spot with fingers or a firm toy might help. You're going to feel the urge to urinate but don't worry that's normal, if it makes you more comfortable empty your bladder before hand. Finally it's most girls reflex to inhale and tense up before orgasm but if you exhale and bare down (like you're pushing something out of you) you're more likely to have a g-spot orgasm.
06/06/2012
ginainohio ginainohio
thanks for the advice ladies i was wondering this my self
06/07/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
relax
06/07/2012
Tiffany Rose Tiffany Rose
when i had my coming out of the closet of squirting i was with a guy that his penis was curved up so find a penis with a penis like that ... i promise you you wont look weird if you ask the guys if they have a curved penis or not
06/08/2012
Tiffany Rose Tiffany Rose
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Originally posted by Tiffany Rose
when i had my coming out of the closet of squirting i was with a guy that his penis was curved up so find a penis with a penis like that ... i promise you you wont look weird if you ask the guys if they have a curved penis or not
its an amazxing sensation tho
06/08/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Great advice everyone. I'm learning patience is key, comfort, arousal, toys, all of the above. I feel I'll have a blended one some day, it's only a matter of time.
07/18/2012
kitty1949 kitty1949
Good pointers. My Pure Wand should be here today, so we'll see...
07/18/2012
hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
I'd suggest trying all of these but maybe wait on trying something with a partner. In my experience, I'm able to relax more when I'm by myself. I am not worrying about if my partner is enjoying himself.
07/21/2012
Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
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Originally posted by Bex1331
Don't put so much pressure on achieving orgasm, it'll stress you out and then it won't happen. Also I've heard a kneading or tapping motion on the g-spot with fingers or a firm toy might help. You're going to feel the urge to ... More
When I get the urge to urinate what usually happens for me is that I squirt, is that normal? I feel me squirting is preventing me from actually having an orgasm...is a vaginal supposed to feel anything like a clitoral as well?
07/25/2012
Bittenflame Bittenflame
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'm an all of the above kinda guy. My wife had no interest in her g-spot and little interest in sex at all. My motivation was that if she enjoyed it more - she would want to do it more. After 22+ years I can report moderate success!

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Thanks!
07/29/2012
Kimberlythai1955 Kimberlythai1955
From personal experience, relaxation is NUMBER ONE. Don't think about it too much.
07/29/2012
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Unique posters: 18