I'm openly gay so people just equate that with anal sex. I don't usually get into the debate that some gay guys don't play with their butts and that some straight men do; and that it isn't necessarily about orientation.
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Do you keep it a secret?
05/31/2012
In my circles I'm not really gonna tell anybody, even my current girlfriend got to know it after almost a year.
It's very easy to get judged and being stamped as a homosexual even if I can't really imagine to have something with a man. And I think my sexual preferences don't really concern anybody. I can't imagine to talk to my mates about stuffing my ass with a dildo while having a bottle of JD
It's very easy to get judged and being stamped as a homosexual even if I can't really imagine to have something with a man. And I think my sexual preferences don't really concern anybody. I can't imagine to talk to my mates about stuffing my ass with a dildo while having a bottle of JD
06/02/2012
Only my wife knows. I can't imagine discussing it with anyone else unless, maybe they brought it up first.
06/02/2012
Taking it to the grave!
06/02/2012
my husband has asked me to keep that between the two of us (other than Eden).
06/02/2012
It's just something I my wife knows about and I plan on keeping it that way
06/04/2012
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Same here!
Originally posted by
cujo467
I dont try to keep it secret but I dont bring it up either.
06/11/2012
just one
07/25/2012
Some things I just keep to myself, it aint nobody's business but mine. am a very private person.
07/30/2012
I have shared and we incorporate it into our play
07/31/2012
I keep it to myself and ppl online know but only ppl i know i can trust to keep it on the DL
07/31/2012
The only person I share secrets with is my husband.
07/31/2012
I'm in the closet completely from my family. Sexually, politically, religiously, ect. I have a very very very traditional family and I enjoy keeping a roof over my head.
One day I'll probably just move out and never come back, and reestablish myself out of the closet then.
One day I'll probably just move out and never come back, and reestablish myself out of the closet then.
08/04/2012
I'm not particularly ashamed of it, but I don't advertise it lol
08/13/2012
I tend to keep my sex life between the peolpe that I am being intamate with and myself and random people online that dont seem to be a part of my normal social circle.
08/16/2012
My boyfriend and I both know that is something he's interested in (and we're exploring it a bit). He's told his best friend and I've told mine, but we're keeping it to ourselves outside of that, because he doesn't want to be teased and it's better if the whole world doesn't know.
11/05/2012
I will mention my interest in it if a like-minded partner seems in to it also, and have discussed it with friends (off- and online) who enjoy talking about sex and masturbation.
12/18/2012
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i voted for my love.
Originally posted by
Howells
Have you ever told anyone? Are you afraid? Or do you have no problem sharing it with a friend? Mabye everyone knows?!
I'm talking about you doing some expeditions in the back yard
I'm talking about you doing some expeditions in the back yard
02/14/2013
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my wife knows. i've hinted at it with others. i don't really care who knows. i just don't see a reason to go around broadcasting it.
Originally posted by
Howells
Have you ever told anyone? Are you afraid? Or do you have no problem sharing it with a friend? Mabye everyone knows?!
I'm talking about you doing some expeditions in the back yard
I'm talking about you doing some expeditions in the back yard
02/27/2013
I haven't really told anyone. My boyfriend knows though.
03/12/2013
Outside of Eden, only three people know I like anal; those are the three people I've had anal sex with.
Sex almost never comes up for conversation in our circle of friends. When it does come up, it's discussed in general terms. Like, does your sex life get worse after you have kids?
It's fine with me that we don't talk about it. It's not some deep, dark secret or anything. It's just not that much fun to talk about. I'd rather not know the specifics of what my friends do in bed and I hope they feel the same about us!
Sex almost never comes up for conversation in our circle of friends. When it does come up, it's discussed in general terms. Like, does your sex life get worse after you have kids?
It's fine with me that we don't talk about it. It's not some deep, dark secret or anything. It's just not that much fun to talk about. I'd rather not know the specifics of what my friends do in bed and I hope they feel the same about us!
03/17/2013
I have only had two former lovers that figured out that I like being played with there. I've made hints to my current gf(fiancé), but I don't think she has made the connection. There is no way I can ask her to go there, I'm just hoping she figures it out one of these days.
05/05/2013
Just the wife. If it came up in conversation, especially if someone else was being ridiculed, I would stand up in solidarity, but it's not something I'd raise as a topic. I don't really talk about sexual topics at all with most of my friends.
05/06/2013
I think when u have a secret, u have to worry about if it's going to get out. I keep somethings under lock and key...If I tell someone something, it would be something I'd rather not be repeated but would die if it were out..
05/07/2013