So I've seen a lot of discussions about how bisexual women are often found to be hotter and how this is either a. anti-feminist b. accurate c. an insult, and etc. all the way past z. What I haven't seen much of is whether or not bisexual men are considered more or less attractive/desirable for their open-mindedness. As I a bisexual male myself my point of view is rather skewed. But what is the general opinion here?
Are bi-sexual men found more or less attractive by women and men?
I'm going to have to say MORE attractive to me, because I've never actually been attracted to a straight man before, aside from celebrities. Actually, when I thought my current guy was straight when we first met online, I told him I was somewhat disappointed, til he set me right on that issue. So, til this day, never dated nor was attracted to a straight man!
11/27/2011
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In my experience, more women are starting to come around to finding man-on-man hot in the same way guys have long found two women together to be hot. I do think there remains a stigma toward bi-men among many men and women though, and I think that's a shame.
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Tripod95
So I've seen a lot of discussions about how bisexual women are often found to be hotter and how this is either a. anti-feminist b. accurate c. an insult, and etc. all the way past z. What I haven't seen much of is whether or not bisexual men are
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So I've seen a lot of discussions about how bisexual women are often found to be hotter and how this is either a. anti-feminist b. accurate c. an insult, and etc. all the way past z. What I haven't seen much of is whether or not bisexual men are considered more or less attractive/desirable for their open-mindedness. As I a bisexual male myself my point of view is rather skewed. But what is the general opinion here?
11/27/2011
I really would love to be in a relationship with a bi man. This may seem kind of sexist, but I would probably be more comfortable in an open relationship with a bi male partner where he had other male partner(s) but not female ones. OTOH, a lot of straight men impose these sorts of rules with their bi female partners. I am personally more aligned with the vibe of gay male sexuality than lesbianism (I'm genderqueer) so that may be a reason, too!
12/24/2011
I personally am very attracted to bisexual men. I think it is about a couple of things, for starters I like the idea of someone having who has the same perspective as me on sexuality, I like the open mindedness that generally accompanies bisexuality, and I think man on man sex is sexy. Oddly enough I am no more attracted to a bisexual woman than a strictly lesbian woman.
Feb 9, 3:55 am
I'm attracted to the open mindedness of bi guys.
... that and man on man action really turns me on...
... and it's even hotter to know they wouldn't mind if I jumped in the middle... mmm I could be the meat in a man sandwich...
... anyway, I think there isn't as much conversation about it because in our culture it is much more acceptable to talk about being attracted to females.
I've mentioned watching gay porn and actually had many people respond with "...why are you watching gay porn? you're a chick!"
It's such a silly response! For one thing, if I were a dude and said I was watching lesbian porn no one would bat an eye. For another thing, why am I watching it? because it's hot! Why else watch porn? lol
... that and man on man action really turns me on...
... and it's even hotter to know they wouldn't mind if I jumped in the middle... mmm I could be the meat in a man sandwich...
... anyway, I think there isn't as much conversation about it because in our culture it is much more acceptable to talk about being attracted to females.
I've mentioned watching gay porn and actually had many people respond with "...why are you watching gay porn? you're a chick!"
It's such a silly response! For one thing, if I were a dude and said I was watching lesbian porn no one would bat an eye. For another thing, why am I watching it? because it's hot! Why else watch porn? lol
Feb 9, 4:19 am
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