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I want to get my husband to do the swinging thing. How did you talk your wife into it?
Take my advice--if he's not interested in it, don't try to talk him into it. If you succeed in getting him to do it, he'll be doing it just because you wanted him to, and will most likely regret it and resent you. If you don't succeed in talking him into it, he'll still feel pressured and devalued.
My ex-husband talked me into it. I still have icky memories.