When is the right time to introduce your same sex lover or third to your family?

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When is the right time to introduce your same sex lover or third to your family?

SiNn SiNn
My Family are very close minded to a degree they believe your either gay or straight no in between me and my fiancee have a third who is nervous to be known to my close minded family because she feels she will ostracized or something. We right now live apart till my wedding . So when did you all tell or introduce them if you have one?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Before the wedding and we all live in same house
1  (4%)
Soon as the weddings over while we are moving in together
4  (17%)
other please explain in the comments
18  (78%)
Total votes: 23
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06/11/2011
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That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I don't have experience with thirds, but I have been in same-sex relationships and I think that it's best to let her decide. If she isn't comfortable with it I'd wait until she is.
06/12/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
My Family are very close minded to a degree they believe your either gay or straight no in between me and my fiancee have a third who is nervous to be known to my close minded family because she feels she will ostracized or something. We right now ...
my family now know the truth and are still in denial i guess but accepting all the same
08/26/2011
Booktease Booktease
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
my family now know the truth and are still in denial i guess but accepting all the same
I think that if your family knows, then there isn't much you can do about it but hope they come around. At least, that's been my experience since committing to another woman.
08/26/2011
freshbananas freshbananas
My family know I am bi sexual and wouldn't care
11/07/2011
Willow Wand Willow Wand
My mother has no clue that I am Bi, and I'd like to keep it that way....
11/08/2011
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
My family has no need to know that I'm bi, and I think it'll be better that way. There was enough drama/judgement/threat s just getting married to who I decided in a straight relationship. They don't want to know who I really am, so they won't.
11/09/2011
nori nori
I really don't know much about polyamory. Sorry i can't help; but i hope you find a solution to keep everyone comfortable.
01/18/2012
Total posts: 8
Unique posters: 7