How long did it take?

PrincessYagami PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
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Less than a year
closed account , Asher , mr115393 , Robespierrethecat , Inkkythesquid , TransGuy14 , novanilla , lovesexandmarriage , zz1aag , quantumspork , ginainohio78 , needapacker , Why Not? , freesoma , amazon , nope , Bittenflame , jessi2 , unoriginalgirlyid , tequilafish , ButchAndFemme , Rainbows
22  (48%)
within 2-3 years
CutiePatootie , TheirPet , iabicpl09 , Genderfree , ghalik , skippywashere , captainsgirl , 19WolfMan51
8  (17%)
within 4-5 years
vanillaSpice , Edeneve , katat , doowop
4  (9%)
within 6 or more years
Dominican love , deltalima , The Mother of a SiNner , bog , tinybird , marshmallow , Incendiaire , butts , fizzygato , Mrs.Tee , comatose-kitty , FlashFuchsia
12  (26%)
Total votes: 46
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Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Quote:
Originally posted by PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
I realized that I was interested in women (vaguely) in about middle school, then had my fist sexual experience with a lady my freshman year of high school.
11/09/2012
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
ive only tried it once
11/09/2012
Inkkythesquid Inkkythesquid
My first experience was with another girl in middle school, experimenting and such since we were losers and too shy to talk to boys at all xD
11/09/2012
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Let's see... I probably realized it around 14 or so but I was confused for a while, and I didn't have sex at all until about 19.
11/09/2012
TransGuy14 TransGuy14
8 months
11/24/2012
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
i think i was twenty the first time i kissed a girl. i was 12 when i came out.
11/25/2012
KittyGoesRawr KittyGoesRawr
I officially came out February-March ish and have been with my lovely, lovely girlfriend for a month and a half. Sexual experience as me? Not yet. But we kiss and cuddle! We've discussed it, though... I mean, we aren't gonna do it RIGHT NOW. But since I'm a noob and she's a gentleman-in-female-fo rm, we were casually talking about our comfort levels with sex n such. We don't like to do stuff unless both of us consent, y'know?
11/27/2012
marshmallow marshmallow
six!
11/28/2012
zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
u just know
11/28/2012
ginainohio78 ginainohio78
Less than a year
11/29/2012
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
never had sex with the same sex
11/29/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
I was 13 when I knew I was gay, 19 when I slept with a guy.
11/29/2012
Why Not? Why Not?
I would say I slept with a guy before I really realized I was gay. After 20 years of sleeping with men it is hard to call it a phase.
12/05/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
I'm not sure. I guess a couple of years. It's hard to win my trust over.
12/05/2012
joolie joolie
It hasn't happened, and it won't. My husband and I are strictly monogamous.
12/05/2012
iabicpl09 iabicpl09
It took a couple of years,I live in a rural area and didnt know where to start
12/08/2012
Septimus Septimus
Is there an option for "Still Haven't?"
I consider myself to be bisexual, but I'm in a committed monogamous relationship, and I don't see that changing anytime soon. (We're tying the knot in 8 months!) So I don't know if I'll ever have a real experience with another woman. And right now, I'm okay with that.
12/08/2012
butts butts
I'm a little different, I'm a gay transsexual, it took me until I was 13 to start experimenting with my gender identity, and until 16 to come out. I always knew that I was attracted to males, but I didn't like being considered straight and I couldn't understand why for a while. I wasn't out to my first boyfriend, but everyone after that I was. But, I didn't have sex until I was 19, I wasn't comfortable with sex until I met my current partner who fully accepts me as I am.
12/10/2012
fizzygato fizzygato
A long time/ no time??????

I feel like I've generally known my sexuality for a long time, that it wasn't straight, since I was like 5. At the same time, I feel like settling on a sexual label is something that's constantly evolving for me, so I feel like in some ways I've already had a queer sexual encounter (for lack of ever thinking I'll have a ~same-sex one~~) without "knowing" my sexual identity. ("Knowing" meaning knowing something fixed/ set, which in turn makes me question what it means to know/ why I am treating it like knowledge is set, but idk.. You can know something about yourself for a while, then it's no longer a truth later on. Very difficult to say, for me)
12/30/2012
jessi2 jessi2
Quote:
Originally posted by PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
Hind sight is 20 20, and looking back there were signs from the time I was in elementary school. Despite that, I tried to be straight because I thought I would disappoint my dad.

I went to a gay bar in Jax Fl with my gay friends as a fruit fly, and proceeded to get hit on by an attractive mixed girl. We made out and from then on I KNEW!! This was in 2006.
I slept with a girl shortly after this, and we dated for a while.

After that, I tried to be straight a few more times thinking it was a phase, until I had my first serious relationship with a girl. I have not looked back since.
01/02/2013
unoriginalgirlyid unoriginalgirlyid
It happened the same night haha
01/10/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by The Mother of a SiNner
ive only tried it once
sam ehere
01/10/2013
katat katat
realized it pretty young
01/22/2013
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
not really sure havent even thought about this question before
01/22/2013
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
I have never had any sexual experiences
01/22/2013
Rainbows Rainbows
almost exactly a year, actually. I fell in love with my current girlfriend only 6 months after realizing I was gay, and things went from there.
01/26/2013
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