Personally, public hair is a turn on to me. I actually prefer my partner doesn't shave. I think its kind of a shame when people are grossed out by something that is a normal part of the human body. And it's such a pain to keep up with shaving or waxing and razor burn or irritation... That's what's yuck. And sex or toys on a just shaved cunt can be extraordinarily painful and irritating!
But I also don't much mind if she shaves her legs or armpits either. Love silky smooth legs but hair anywhere isn't going to turn me off. And more over my opinion has possibly loosened up because I'm disabled and pretty significantly so, so do I waste my limited energy shaving everything only to be way too sore and exhausted for actual sex or do I just get down to business? I've luckily been with the same partner for six years now, longer than I've been ill and while its not been easy, we've both adapted and perhaps are also a lot more comfortable with each other and each others bodies. If I weren't partnered and looking to hook up, I'd probably go pay to get everything, except my cunt, waxed and I've never had any trouble in a new relationship to let my partner know if she's expecting me to shave down there, well that's just not my style. And I really hate how so many women of any orientation feel like they're somehow obligated to do so.