Sleeping with women....

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Sleeping with women....

Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
I also posted this in the womens sexual health section


At about 14 is when I started noticing I was sexually on top of emotionally into girls. Never acted on it, and years go by. I kept it a secret from anyone I knew. That was until I was about 17 and I told my boyfriend. He has the idea that ALL women are at least part lesbian. It's just some don't want to admit it. hahaaha Kinda crazy.

Anyways, So about 5 months ago I ment this girl. She's amazing, and beautiful she's just something else. I told my boyfriend about her. He supports me being with women even though we are together. It doesn't bother him. He know's I've never been with a women before, and he wants me to at least try it once. I told him I'd never do it. I felt like it was cheating even though he tells me 50 million times that it isn't. For some reason he doesn't see sex between women as sex. If you ask him, he'll tell you its just people rubbing together. I don't know why he thinks that.

Now that I know this women I've actually started thinking about it. She's also open to the idea. She knows about my boyfriend, and I'm not leaving him. She said she was fine with that. We now started hangingout together (me and the girl) We've talked about sleeping together. She is like me, she's has NEVER been with a women either. So it's new to both of us.

I've notice that the closer we get the more scared I find myself becoming. I think it's because I don't know what to do. I don't even know where to begain. So I'm asking you ladies for tip and tricks, or are there any good book here on EF I should read. I'm asking for any kind of help.

I'm just confused and scared. I just don't know what to do with myself....

I don't want to get into this and it ends so bad that it scares me away from women all together.


Sorry it's so long.
10/16/2011
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Phoenix77 Phoenix77
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
I also posted this in the womens sexual health section


At about 14 is when I started noticing I was sexually on top of emotionally into girls. Never acted on it, and years go by. I kept it a secret from anyone I knew. That was until I was ...
Take things at your own pace. Remember the things that you have experienced and liked, and try to emulate them. Remember that your first time with a guy wasn't *the best thing ever* so don't expect it to be *the best thing ever* your first time with a woman. It's very different. Be prepared for some serious emotional changes, and lots of long, possibly difficult conversations with your boyfriend.

And of course, most important, have fun! Laugh. Don't get caught up on being "perfect". You're on the same page with her, don't put yourself under too much pressure ;-)
10/21/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
I also posted this in the womens sexual health section


At about 14 is when I started noticing I was sexually on top of emotionally into girls. Never acted on it, and years go by. I kept it a secret from anyone I knew. That was until I was ...
Im right there with Phoenix. I have been with four women over the last 8 or so years. I was "Curious" and tried it but didnt really like it. Obviously I tried it a few more times lol and had similar results. This was because 1- I didnt know what to expect. 2 all of these girls were the same as I had been - first time with a woman for each of them. I had fun and had multiple orgasms with each of them - and so did they- but it just isnt for me - I prefer man cock. But... you need to at least try it so you know if you like it or not. Its very sexy, hot and awesome to see, but at the same time it will be brand new. Good luck! And let me know how it goes and what you think after. I suggest you dont try to rush, take your time and relax, ask questions and give good feedback to her. Toys and a quiet setting might help firstime FonF sex.
10/21/2011
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