The first time and love

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The first time and love

charletnarouh charletnarouh
How do you think they relate? Whether we're talking about your first time with anyone, or your first time with a member of the same sex,
Were you in a relationship or did you develop a relationship with your "first" and did you love them and they you?
Did you fall before having sex with them or after? How did having sex with them affect your "fall" if at all?
Do you think we're more likely to fall for our "firsts" and is it important to choose a person it's ok to fall for?
Do you think the first time should be in a relationship? If so, how important is it and why?
For gay men and lesbians, are we more likely to fall in love with our "first" of the same sex than the opposite sex?
Are women more likely to fall for their firsts than men? Gay vs. straight men? Lesbians vs. straight women?
10/01/2012
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Ansley Ansley
I can't speak for an entire group all at once, but I think falling in love with your first is more common than not. The chemicals created when an orgasm occurs are pretty powerful and they can be very confusing.

I think everyone should make decisions based on their own moral compass - if it feels right in a relationship, great! If you just want to "get it over with", that's fine too.

Regardless it's personal and very different for each of us and no two experiences are exactly the same.
10/02/2012
Billie Bones Billie Bones
I did not love the first person I ever had sex with but I did love the first woman I had sex with. I don't think it was about the sex because love came a while later after I got to know her and spent a lot of time with her.
10/02/2012
Shayla Shayla
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Originally posted by charletnarouh
How do you think they relate? Whether we're talking about your first time with anyone, or your first time with a member of the same sex,
Were you in a relationship or did you develop a relationship with your "first" and did you love ...
i was in love with my first, or at least i thought it was love at the time, we were in love before we had sex, he was very experienced and i was still a virgin so we dated for quite a while before i let him have the goods. i think the feelings got stronger after we started having sex
10/02/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
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Originally posted by Ansley
I can't speak for an entire group all at once, but I think falling in love with your first is more common than not. The chemicals created when an orgasm occurs are pretty powerful and they can be very confusing.

I think everyone should ...
I completely agree!
10/02/2012
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