I'm a trans woman, and I want to see more sex resources for trans women. I find that people, trans women included, often avoid talking about trans women's sex- particularly in sex positivist conversations. This, I think, is because of the stigmatization that we are always complaining about, the hypersexualization, fetishization, and all of that.
I am not saying that it is not important to call people out on those things, but we are also often sexual people. I highly recommend this zine called Fucking Trans Women
. I've found it really helpful, and plan on contributing to future issues. The first issue is available from the girl who makes it as a digital download for only five dollars, as of right now, there is only one issue.
That zine makes some great points. Most notably, is that if we, as trans women, start talking about how we fuck, and making our own porn, and talking about our own sexuality, we can dispel all the bullshit and can create a more true, positive, and okay dialog around our sex. That's why I joined the Eden Community. I plan on being pretty active, writing reviews, and contributing articles and message board posts and all kinds of things, and talking about being a sexually active trans woman. Let's do this! Contribute to Fucking Trans Women here
, contribute to the Eden Forums, talk about your sex, what you like, what you don't like, and what you don't know, what you do, and review your favorite toys.
Our bodies are all different, and just because I have a penis, doesn't mean it works like a man's penis (it works a LOT different, actually). Let's talk about that stuff, and use the community here at Eden to make our own sex resources!
ALSO, it seems like a lot of trans women on here are looking for femininity/passing tips. I'll probably start a thread about that for people to share resources, thoughts, experiences etc. Passing is a controversial and hot topic, so we should talk about it!