Personally, I enjoy PIV sex so the one and only thing that makes me 'lucky' to be trans is that I can still transition, be a normal man, get my metoidioplasty and testicular implants and have all my junk fixed up but I can keep that last part so it's not all anal.
After all, a cisguy who wanted a vagina would never be able to get one. A MTF transsexual couldn't get a vagina without getting rid of their penis even if they did want to (I am not saying they would, just saying it doesn't seem to be an option).
In that way, I do have one benefit. Now I do have to take hormones the rest of my life but if the situation were reversed and I was a regular dude and got told I could have a vagina (and knew how much I would enjoy it) if I took an injection every week, I would jump at the chance.
So basically I just consider myself a dude who wishes his dick was bigger (many of us do!) and has something extra special which I do enjoy.