Odd Question About Straight Trans Men and Girl on Girl?

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Odd Question About Straight Trans Men and Girl on Girl?

Madeira Madeira
We all know that as a general rule straight guys dig girl on girl action, but I was wondering (now this is a weird question that just randomly popped into my head) but for all the trans dudes here, how do you feel about girl on girl? Do you like it? Could take it or leave it? Find it uncomfortable to watch? Not that I'm expecting a general consensus, just curious about your opinions?
12/02/2010
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Sir Sir
Not interested, personally. But truly, what makes a trans- man any different than a person who was born male? I do not understand the reason why the two are separate.
12/02/2010
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I'm not a transman, so I hope it's okay with you, Madeira and any other transmen that wander through, that I'm answering

Transmen are men, just as cismen are men; some will be heterosexual, and some will not. Some will like girl/girl, some will like guy/guy, some will like girl/guy, some will like ___anycombinationhere_ __. Men are men, women are women, but people are people; what does it for some men will not do it for others, just as some women like male/male, female/female or whatever it is that does it for them.
12/02/2010
Madeira Madeira
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Originally posted by Sir
Not interested, personally. But truly, what makes a trans- man any different than a person who was born male? I do not understand the reason why the two are separate.
Well, I thought that AFAB men might have a different view of it, because although they're unquestionably men, they've usually had the experience of being seen by society as a woman for a portion of their lives and I was just wondering if that changed their feelings on this particular genre.
12/16/2010
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Madeira
Well, I thought that AFAB men might have a different view of it, because although they're unquestionably men, they've usually had the experience of being seen by society as a woman for a portion of their lives and I was just wondering if that ...
I understand what you mean, but it wouldn't matter or change it. There's no difference between the two. I agree with what DeliciousSurprise said - that was correct.
12/16/2010
jursa008 jursa008
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Originally posted by Madeira
We all know that as a general rule straight guys dig girl on girl action, but I was wondering (now this is a weird question that just randomly popped into my head) but for all the trans dudes here, how do you feel about girl on girl? Do you like it? ...
I am a straight transman, and I do not enjoy girl on girl action. I also have a few straight non-trans guy friends that do not like girl on girl action. I believe this is because it is difficult to associate with. It is hard to enjoy erotica that you can't imagine yourself in. I don't find it uncomfortable to watch, it just does not turn me on.
03/19/2011
Amy Snookum Amy Snookum
I'm identyfying myself with my permanent partner and we can be both boys/girls, or play boy/girl game. If you asking about our games.
But if you asking about watching on girl-girl action, I am not interested. )
03/21/2011
Gabe Gabe
I actually disagree with the general claims made above that transmen are just like cis men. Yes, in a variety of ways, we are the same as men assigned male at birth. But our history IS different, and that's relevant to this question, in my case. For instance, at one point I identified as a lesbian. At this point, I don't identify that way, but it doesn't mean that I don't find lesbian sex hot. In fact, I find it hotter than I do straight sex a lot of the time. After all, I learned to have sex as a lesbian. I still currently sleep mostly with queer women. So my sex hasn't changed all that much from the sex I was having when I was a butch lesbian. With that said, the sex I find erotic hasn't changed much since I was a lesbian, so girl-on-girl is still hot.
I should emphasize that this is my opinion, and I don't mean to suggest that other transmen's sex is anything akin to lesbian sex--that's just my sex life I'm talking about.
03/25/2011
jesseftm jesseftm
I do not like mainstream girl on girl porn and that has nothing to do with my gender identity. It mostly has to do to with how uncomfortably unrealistic it is. Now, some people enjoy it and they can be transmen, cismen, transwomen, ciswomen etc, but I don't think that has anything to do with what porn they like.
The only "girl on girl" action I can enjoy (but not enough to get off, just enough to enjoy watching) is on crashpadseries because it's less about being girl on girl and more about being person on person. it's sexy. i don't want to see high femme women with their acrylic nails on fingering each other with one finger and moaning over dramatically. I'd much rather watch queer people fuck the shit out of each other in every which way. With that being said, even as a straight transman I tend to watch gay porn. Specifically "all american" jock or frat guys who are "straight" going at it. There is nothing better.
06/09/2011
AriBoi AriBoi
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Originally posted by jesseftm
I do not like mainstream girl on girl porn and that has nothing to do with my gender identity. It mostly has to do to with how uncomfortably unrealistic it is. Now, some people enjoy it and they can be transmen, cismen, transwomen, ciswomen etc, but ...
Totally agree regarding the mainstream girl-on-girl porn. Never really was my thing, even when I identified as a gay female. Queer folks fucking - much hotter (male or female, but female more so in my opinion) but straight sex gets me aroused most - which always confused the hell out of me when I thought I was a gay girl.

Having sex in a male role (I don't necessarily mean being a top/dominant - just being MALE and using/having my body used as if it were a "normal" male body) really opened my eyes in a lot of ways and shed light on why the straight sex got me going.
07/17/2011
Triangles Triangles
I almost exclusively watch girl on girl. However, I hate mainstream/fake videos. I identify as a straight transman. I find porn with female bodied people more relatable as I came out as a lesbian, and therefore I get a better fantasy while watching porn, as long as the people seem to be passionate about it. Nothing bothers me more than obvious gay for pay. I actually get a bit uncomfortable watching cismen fuck because I feel like I miss out on having a real dick.
08/04/2011
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