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I feel like trans* should include everyone, especially if you're just working things out. Time helps
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MeliPixie
Hi everyone! I've been wondering this for quite a while, and I figured it's time I ask people who know. What makes a person transgendered? I mean, I'm not asking "why" they are transgendered, I am wondering what
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Hi everyone! I've been wondering this for quite a while, and I figured it's time I ask people who know. What makes a person transgendered? I mean, I'm not asking "why" they are transgendered, I am wondering what "counts" for them to, I don't know, qualify? If there even are qualifications? What sorts of characteristics and feelings to transgendered people have?
This brings me to my poll question: Am I transgendered, if only just a little? Or if there is another word to describe my thoughts and feelings? Here is my thinking. This might get a little long-winded.
Ever since I was old enough to know what a penis was, I always wanted one, to the point of sometimes feeling like I should have been born with one. Even though I also love my vagina and the wonders within my own fully female body, some part of me craves to know what it feels like to have my cock stroked, to put it in someone and actually feel it (more than just the smack of hips when I use a dildo on my boyfriend). I used to buy men's clothes, but being an incredibly voluptuous woman, they don't fit properly and chafe terribly. I prefer porn that involves women with cocks. And recently my boyfriend got me a Realdoe Feeldoe , because even though I wanted to try a Share because I hear they are easier to use (having already the Feeldoe Violet), the need for a real cock was overwhelming, and pretty much made the decision for us. That's not to say I want to get surgery or anything, if there even is a surgery that creates a penis yet more than elongating the clitoris. I love my vagina. I just feel... almost incomplete without a penis.
These thoughts aren't just recent, like I said, I've felt this way pretty much all my life. I wonder if someone could help me figure out what it means. If I am transgendered in some way, or confused, or just extreeemely curious... I'd like to discuss your thoughts. Pixie less
This brings me to my poll question: Am I transgendered, if only just a little? Or if there is another word to describe my thoughts and feelings? Here is my thinking. This might get a little long-winded.
Ever since I was old enough to know what a penis was, I always wanted one, to the point of sometimes feeling like I should have been born with one. Even though I also love my vagina and the wonders within my own fully female body, some part of me craves to know what it feels like to have my cock stroked, to put it in someone and actually feel it (more than just the smack of hips when I use a dildo on my boyfriend). I used to buy men's clothes, but being an incredibly voluptuous woman, they don't fit properly and chafe terribly. I prefer porn that involves women with cocks. And recently my boyfriend got me a Realdoe Feeldoe , because even though I wanted to try a Share because I hear they are easier to use (having already the Feeldoe Violet), the need for a real cock was overwhelming, and pretty much made the decision for us. That's not to say I want to get surgery or anything, if there even is a surgery that creates a penis yet more than elongating the clitoris. I love my vagina. I just feel... almost incomplete without a penis.
These thoughts aren't just recent, like I said, I've felt this way pretty much all my life. I wonder if someone could help me figure out what it means. If I am transgendered in some way, or confused, or just extreeemely curious... I'd like to discuss your thoughts. Pixie less
