Couples, do you make a point to have sex on Valentines Day?

NurseKitty NurseKitty
I'm just curious to see, is Valentines Day an "obligatory sex day"? Do you make a point of having sex on V Day?
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Rossie, Silverdrop, Coralbell, Ryuson, eeep, wdanas, OhMy!, dv8, Bignuf, freda, BlooJay, Undead, Melissa Smith, rom323, Highmaintenancegirl916, Stagger13, urhappybunnie, Hallmar82, SkylarrStarr, SexyRayne
21  (51%)
Katelyn, dhig, indiglo, Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama, BabyL0ve, aliceinthehole, darthkitt3n, married with children, Pixel, melissa1973, Howells, JessCee, guard083, ////, arduous, Eliza, underHim, unfulfilled, LacyRogue, (k)InkyIvy, JustLikeHeaven
Total votes: 41
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Jan 25, 10:50 pm
Rossie Rossie
Of course, it's Valentines Day after all!
Jan 25, 10:55 pm
dhig dhig
we usually do, but it's not an absolute requirement
Jan 25, 11:07 pm
Silverdrop Silverdrop
We wouldn't force it if there was some reason one of us just couldn't get in the mood (migraine or something), but we definitely try to get in the mood.
Jan 25, 11:08 pm
Coralbell Coralbell
This will be my first Valentines where I'm in a relationship, so I'm pretty excited about it, and sex will be mandatory!
Jan 25, 11:30 pm
indiglo indiglo
We're the type that we do whatever we want whenever we want. We don't like to feel forced or obligated with our sex life.
Jan 25, 11:31 pm
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I'm one who isn't a big fan of holidays like this. I mean - my husband will go to the store and bring me home a diet coke or a chocolate bar or something much of the time when he's out and that means far far more to me than mandatory chocolates or a meal out or sex simply because someone declares it is "Valentine's Day".

If we feel like it- we'll have sex. If not - that's fine - we probably had it the day before and are wiped out or have plans for the next day or whatever.
Jan 25, 11:38 pm
Ryuson Ryuson
We do!
Jan 25, 11:47 pm
wdanas wdanas
Sure, why not? You may as well ask if couples make a point to have sex on their anniversary. I'm sure most couples do, or at least do something to foster intimacy on that day.

What we don't use it for is obligatory pink stuffed animals and red roses. But I'm good with chocolate!
Jan 26, 1:14 am
NurseKitty NurseKitty
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Originally posted by wdanas
Sure, why not? You may as well ask if couples make a point to have sex on their anniversary. I'm sure most couples do, or at least do something to foster intimacy on that day.

What we don't use it for is obligatory pink stuffed animals and ... More
Funny thing is my hubby and I don't do anything for our anniversary. We've been together 12 years, we only got married out of necessity after being together for about 8 years and neither one of us remembers our anniversary.

I'm kinda with TexasMama, I'm not a big fan of holidays and it means way more to me when he brings something home because he thought of me.
Jan 26, 4:12 pm
married with children married with children
i try to make a point to have sex everyday.
Jan 27, 10:13 pm
Pixel Pixel
Eh. We both have high sex drives, so there really isn't a point in making it a date to have sex or not. Our sex life is quite healthy!
Jan 27, 10:27 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by NurseKitty
I'm just curious to see, is Valentines Day an "obligatory sex day"? Do you make a point of having sex on V Day?
Heck yes. A holiday devoted to love, sex, chocolate and flowers!!! Who could ask for better???
Jan 29, 4:52 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by married with children
i try to make a point to have sex everyday.
EVERY DAY????? You are kidding, right????
Jan 29, 4:52 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by wdanas
Sure, why not? You may as well ask if couples make a point to have sex on their anniversary. I'm sure most couples do, or at least do something to foster intimacy on that day.

What we don't use it for is obligatory pink stuffed animals and ... More
Dark Chocolate!!!!
Jan 29, 4:53 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Rossie
Of course, it's Valentines Day after all!
Bingo!!!
Jan 29, 4:53 pm
freda freda
yes we do
Jan 30, 1:53 pm
lustfully lustfully
Usually do =x
Jan 30, 2:12 pm
guard083 guard083
We dont make everything revlove around it so we can but if we usually hope to
Feb 8, 5:52 pm
arduous arduous
Nah. Sex, for us, is something we make a point of doing regularly, like taking a shower or brushing your teeth. It usually happens on Valentine's Day, but we don't force it or plan anything special.
Feb 9, 1:02 am
BlooJay BlooJay
Hahaha! Yes, but we do it regularly.
Feb 9, 1:21 am
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by NurseKitty
I'm just curious to see, is Valentines Day an "obligatory sex day"? Do you make a point of having sex on V Day?
yes we try to. we don't live together or alone so it isn't always possible.
Feb 9, 1:47 am
Melissa Smith Melissa Smith
Yes, most of the time.
Feb 9, 2:31 am
Eliza Eliza
I won't be seeing my partner on Valentine's day because we're both in school a few hours from each other, but we'll have plenty of sex this weekend before it to make up for it.
Feb 9, 9:55 am
underHim underHim
Would love to plan it but with family around we just have sex whenever we can.
Feb 9, 10:56 am
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm usually on my cycle and the hubby doesn't have sex during that time of the month.
Feb 9, 11:04 am
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
yes for sure.
Feb 9, 8:19 pm
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Of course, but we usually celebrate early anyway.
Feb 10, 10:05 pm
Pinkie Pie Pinkie Pie
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
i try to make a point to have sex everyday.
same, i like to have sex multiple times a day!
Feb 10, 11:29 pm
freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by NurseKitty
I'm just curious to see, is Valentines Day an "obligatory sex day"? Do you make a point of having sex on V Day?
yes
Feb 13, 1:33 pm
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