Do you like to be humiliated?

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Do you like to be humiliated?

kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
Do you like to humiliate or be humiliated during sex. I have seen people that enjoy this and I just don't get that. If yes please if you will explain why to me.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes I like to humiliate others.
11
No I do not like to humiliate others.
41
Yes I like to be humiliated.
17
No I do not like to be humiliated.
49
I am female.
47
I am male.
14
I can take it or leave it.
2
Total votes: 181 (73 voters)
Poll is closed
06/05/2011
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Shellz31 Shellz31
No, I don't like being humiliated at any time! Nor do I like to humiliate others.
06/05/2011
UunicornN UunicornN
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Originally posted by Shellz31
No, I don't like being humiliated at any time! Nor do I like to humiliate others.
same here.
06/05/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
My guy likes humiliating, I like being humiliated. I would like to specify that I'm talking about dark and dirty kind of humiliation, not "you're ugly haha" and the like.

My guy's reasoning: it gets him off and makes him feel like he has total power and control.
My reasoning: it feels all carnal and animalistic and delicious. Total submission = yum.
06/05/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Both of us enjoy being humiliated, and she enjoys dishing out humiliation.
06/05/2011
kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
If my hubby tried to do that to me I would be hurt and angry.
06/05/2011
Sir Sir
I enjoy to humiliate others during play sessions.

Why? Hm...I am not sure, it's just something that gets me off. I'm a sadist, so naturally, I enjoy seeing others in discomfort or pain that I've inflicted. I also find it amusing to make someone embarrassed because I find it to be cute.
06/05/2011
softcoeur softcoeur
Being humiliated or humiliating someone else is not for me. I enjoy submission, and being under someone's control, but that does not include humiliation.
06/05/2011
Retro Retro
Quote:
Originally posted by kelaaa33wish
Do you like to humiliate or be humiliated during sex. I have seen people that enjoy this and I just don't get that. If yes please if you will explain why to me.
My partner likes humiliation but I don't like doing nor having it done to me. The only time I can is if he gets me mad at him
06/05/2011
Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I enjoy to humiliate others during play sessions.

Why? Hm...I am not sure, it's just something that gets me off. I'm a sadist, so naturally, I enjoy seeing others in discomfort or pain that I've inflicted. I also find it amusing to ...
Same here.
06/06/2011
indiglo indiglo
That is not our thing. I will watch the occasional porn in this genre though, and I usually enjoy watching it a lot. But I would never want to act it out with my partner, I would never want to humiliate him or be humiliated.
06/06/2011
Dusk Dusk
I enjoy humiliation but not all of the time. It depends on the day.
06/06/2011
That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I enjoy causing humiliation.
06/06/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
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Originally posted by kelaaa33wish
If my hubby tried to do that to me I would be hurt and angry.
Same here.
06/06/2011
lunapixie lunapixie
I like to be humiliated, but I don't like the idea of humiliating some one else.
06/06/2011
link82 link82
I've never even heard of this until now! No way would I want that ever!
06/06/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by Shellz31
No, I don't like being humiliated at any time! Nor do I like to humiliate others.
ditto
06/06/2011
CAKES CAKES
Not my thing.
06/06/2011
toxie m toxie m
I tend to like it. Degradation has recently taken a starring role in my fantasies, I'm not exactly sure why. It just feels super dirty in a sexy way. It has to be a certain flavour of humiliation though, not just insults, as MaryExy pointed out. I like to be made to feel slutty and a bit used, but still wanted.
06/06/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
personally, not really. but to each his own right?
06/07/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Not into it - we want our relationship to be uplifting for both of us.
06/07/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by kelaaa33wish
Do you like to humiliate or be humiliated during sex. I have seen people that enjoy this and I just don't get that. If yes please if you will explain why to me.
I enjoy some humiliation play with my Master. It can add a lot to the play.
06/07/2011
Donord Donord
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Not into it - we want our relationship to be uplifting for both of us.
Yes.
06/08/2011
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by padmeamidala
I enjoy some humiliation play with my Master. It can add a lot to the play.
Mm, definitely!
06/08/2011
Kiwidragon Kiwidragon
Not for me, but I can understand where the emotion gets turned on. To me it seems to be a power issue, kind of a subset of domination type games. If a person is in a really high stress job for example where they are burdened with a lot of responsibility, humiliation could be a kind of submission and release. So..I get it.
06/09/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
No, I'm very much not into that. I'd imagine it would make me feel demeaned...and doing it would just make me feel guilty, even if they liked it.
06/09/2011
big b big b
no and i dont like to humiliate any one
06/09/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I don't like doing it, or getting it. For one, it's rude. Secondly, why the hell would you want to make someone feel bad about themselves? I seriously do not understand how anyone could like that.
06/09/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
I don't like doing it, or getting it. For one, it's rude. Secondly, why the hell would you want to make someone feel bad about themselves? I seriously do not understand how anyone could like that.
For me it's not supposed to make me feel bad about myself. It's more being used, and it makes me feel more wanted when he'll just take like that, not worrying about looking completely caring all the time. I know he cares, and it's nice to see the side of him that just takes what HE needs and has confidence enough that I'm not gonna get fed up and leave when he uses me. It's hard to explain, but it's definitely not something that makes me feel bad. It's very raw and emotional, and you can just let go and show how devoted you are, how much you will put up with to stay with them. It's a very bonding experience for us. And trust me, I get plenty of aftercare...after .
06/09/2011
Possibly Normal Possibly Normal
Quote:
Originally posted by MaryExy
My guy likes humiliating, I like being humiliated. I would like to specify that I'm talking about dark and dirty kind of humiliation, not "you're ugly haha" and the like.

My guy's reasoning: it gets him off and makes him ...
It is the same here. I mildly enjoy it, never had it done before my current SO though.
06/09/2011
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