I love my boyfriend to bits but I definitely think that I'm more attractive, I go for nerdy guys and while I am still attracted to by boyfriend because I love him he has put on quite a bit of weight. I have encouraged him to exorcise, eat healthy and just try to make better decisions but he won't be pushed. I know if he shed that weight he'd be a hottie, he was on the heavy side when we met but monogamous life has definitely taken it's toll on him.
I'm hoping one day he'll wake up and drop some of that weight, I told him I wouldn't agree to marry him until he'd dropped the weight because I want a husband that will be around to see our kids grow up. I just want him to be healthy, he doesn't have to be skinny or buff just drop enough weight so it's not ruining his life anymore.