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Where do I start?? My dad is in a rest home for 60 days minimum. He is failing fast, but I do still have time with him. My other Shi Tzu is failing, I am going to put her down tomorrow. My daughter has been married 3 years. She is getting a divorce,
Where do I start?? My dad is in a rest home for 60 days minimum. He is failing fast, but I do still have time with him. My other Shi Tzu is failing, I am going to put her down tomorrow. My daughter has been married 3 years. She is getting a divorce, her husband has been cheating on her. She is 1800 miles away. Her husband also threatened her about taking their daughter from her--he had his girlfriend get on the phone and threaten her as well. My daughter makes plans to come home and changes them constantly--then gets mad at me for making plans and buying replacement furniture for my granddaughter. And a trailer for her--had a great deal on it! She has never worked, and needs a place to live when she gets here. But I guess she will figure out how to rent a place with no money, huh? Oh, yeah..she is pregnant and getting an abortion Wednesday. Even though she knows how I feel about abortion -- she does not care and has created issues in our relationship. i am going to stop right now--post more tomorrow when I get a bit more of a grip. Thanks for letting me vent!!!
Aw! I don't even know what to say, or if there even is anything I could say that would lighten your load.
I am sorry though. That is so much to deal with and bless your heart, js250. Here is a hug
I'm sure you could certainly use one right now.
Your dad, you and the rest of your family will be in my prayers and thoughts. I can't imagine having to go through that with my parents and pets. Losing loved ones, in my opinion, is the worst pain on the planet. I hope you and your father get to spend SOO much more time together. I'm sorry you're having to put down your baby
I guess for what you're going through, there really aren't words.
Also, I hope your daughter is able to find happiness and I'm sure she will if she's moving close to you
I am sorry to hear there are rocks in your relationship right now, but maybe they'll all diminish with a bit of time and rest. Maybe when she's good and away from her husband, she'll take to your wisdom and have more peace and possibly begin to care a lot more.
Wishing you the very best through these struggles. Keep us updated and I hope you get plenty of rest. Who knows, maybe this will bring you and her closer together and you'll have a better relationship afterwards. Sorry, I'm terrible at trying to make a situation better. I know there's not much that would make me feel better about this situation if I were in it, but I wish you lots of hugs and peace and rest and strength and anything else you may possibly need right now.