Is anyone afraid of someone they know 'following' them on here? Or know someone that is following them?

mcl272 mcl272
i've read several post/discussions where people are concerned or have found out they know someone that's following them. so i was just wondering everyone's opinions.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, i'm afraid
5
No, i'm not afraid
27
Yes, i know someone
3
No, i don't know anyone
8
other
1
Total votes: 44 (34 voters)
Poll is closed
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Kkay Kkay
My viewpoint is that if anyone I know who I wouldn't want reading this finds this and feels the need to go through all of my posts, then they deserve what comes to them. I am closeted out of respect to my partner's relationship with his family, but feel that if they discovered anything here, they really wouldn't have a leg to stand on.
09/11/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I'd love to find out that someone I know is following me on here, as folks I know in reality avoid sex talk. I'd finally have someone to share this with!
09/11/2011
js250 js250
I do not want any of the customers in my businesses to find me on this site, that would be very uncomfortable.
09/11/2011
mandiegk mandiegk
I definitely wouldn't want any of my clients finding me - that would just be awkward and they already have limited respect for me since I am young. I would be fine with anyone else following me.
09/11/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
I'm a bit nervous! But then I can always ask 'What were you doing on Eden, anyways?!'
09/12/2011
Sir Sir
I'm not afraid. I only really know a few people, and none of them in person. Even if I did, it wouldn't bother me.
09/12/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
Hahaha, why would it bother me? They're on here too, for one, and for two, I'm pretty open. Now my parents or family, that'd just be awkward. But they probably wouldn't recognize me and vice versa, I don't have a photo up or anything.
09/12/2011
indiglo indiglo
The only person I know on here who is following me is my man. And he's not scary.
09/12/2011
Sir Sir
Actually, I forgot about my ex, who I do know in person. She's the only one, though.
09/12/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
Well, considering I come online to get away from my real life friends, it would bother me to an extent. Actually, I wouldn't mind if it was my friends, but if it's my family then I would be bothered. They're really quite nosey.
09/12/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm not affraid of anyone following me.
09/12/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I'm really not afraid. I've gone back and forth for a while and I've ended up at the point where while I'm not going to go out of my way to tell friends/family who don't know about my activities here about them, I'm also not going to deny anything if asked. I'm a grown ass woman and that entitles me to doing things like playing with sex toys and if my family can't handle that, then that's on them if they were here spying on me lol. That being said, I do personally know a few people I'm following, and I do personally know a few people following me.
09/12/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i'm not afraid about people following me; I feel like I keep my personal life pretty under wraps and I only talk to a few people about my Eden hobby. and i don't think I know anyone following me, but I could always be wrong
09/12/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I'm really only afraid of my girlfriend getting curious and seeing some of the things I've posted. I've not posted anything super personal, but I'm paranoid, lol.
09/12/2011
ashaxmarie ashaxmarie
Quote:
Originally posted by mcl272
i've read several post/discussions where people are concerned or have found out they know someone that's following them. so i was just wondering everyone's opinions.
i'm somewhat concerned, mostly because my edenfantasys account is linked to my cam/sex work name and not to my real name, and i'd like to keep them separate. most of the people in my life know what i do for work, but there are some people i would prefer not to know. then again, they don't strike me as edenfantasys customers anyway...lol!
09/12/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
nope! don't know anyone on here... at least, i don't think i do...
09/12/2011
Ansley Ansley
Here's the way I look at---if someone finds me on here, for whatever reason, then they would have to admit what they were initially searching for in the first place. Therefore, they have no cause nor reason to get all judgy with me about it. I share the things I've done in an effort to help others express themselves and if anyone has a problem with that---well fuck 'em if they can't take a joke.
09/13/2011
bdvnt bdvnt
Other. I wouldn't say that I'm "afraid" of someone I know following me in EF. However, that isn't something I would invite either. I value my privacy and my sexuality is my own business. Being anonymous allows me to be more honest and objective. That would be compromised if someone I knew were following me.

My friends know I'm a little off center when it comes to sex. I wouldn't like it, but I could live with my friends knowing more of the details. However, it takes more than one person to have sex, and it would be extremely disrespectful to the ones I love for those details to become known without their consent.

I wouldn't really be too worried about my friends reading my posts. I follow the philosophy that "Love is blind, friends close their eyes." My friends know that and respect that. However, not everyone is my friend.
09/13/2011
haley730 haley730
No not really
09/17/2011
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Unique posters: 19