I have an older sister that I would love to dish about some things with but she's so uptight when it comes to sex I always feel judged and shamed by the time it's over. After she declared that any homoerotic exploration meant you were gay and how shocked she was that a family friend was into BDSM and girl-on-girl play, I stopped talking to her pretty much at all. I learn new things about sex every day that I want to share to help people enhance their sex lives. When I mentioned the idea of selling sex toys, she told me not to tell anyone about it - ever.
I have a girlfriend I can talk to about it, but given the fact she's cheating on her husband, I'm not really sure I want to paint my life in bright lights should I ever need to rescue her and she end up on my couch.
I think that's why I spend so much time on Eden. I can share my ideas and experiences and I do not feel judged or shamed in anyway. I'm interested to see what other users experiences are with this kind of thing IRL.